08/24/2026
Happy when I saw this yesterday, I stopped dead in my tracks. “In order to be magnetic, you have to be able to be repulsive.” I don’t think I’ve ever heard it stated so clearly.
There are people who are on the fence about me. They think I’m too loud or too much. They have opinions about where I work or the high esteem in which I think of myself. The older I get the easier it is for me to walk away. A decade ago I may have tried harder, shrank myself to be more palatable. I’m getting so much better at saying “this opportunity, person, client, job or whatever isn’t for me” and walking away before the situation becomes toxic.
If there are rooms or spaces you no longer see me in, this is why!