08/24/2026
Four years later, this wedding still feels so distinctly like Sophia + Raymond.
It was my first wedding back after having Grace, which probably explains why I remember so many of the little details. I made Sophia’s bouquet. Her uncle made the invitations with her on his old printing press. Their ceremony took place outside on the lawn under a hand-carried chuppah, surrounded by the people they loved, followed by dinner and a night of dancing under the tent.
Nothing about the day felt like it was chosen simply because it was what you were “supposed” to do for a wedding.
The color. Raymond’s turquoise jacket. Sophia’s flowers. The setting. The handmade details. Even the way the day itself unfolded. It was personal and intentional without ever feeling overly produced.
And I think that’s what I appreciate even more looking back at it now.
There are so many decisions involved in planning a wedding that it can become very easy to lose yourselves somewhere between the inspiration, expectations and logistics. These two never did.
Their wedding was joyful, relaxed, a little unexpected and completely, unapologetically them.
Four years later, I wouldn’t change anything about it at all.
Tom Leung
12th Street Catering
Sugartone Brass Band
Stylus DJ Entertainment
Sperry Tents NJ