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Memorable Events with Queen R, 14 Stormvoel St, Mountain View, Uitenhage (2026)

05/09/2026

☕👑 DAYS 93 & 94 — TODAY'S TEA CONVERSATION

Build Your Children Up, Don’t Build Walls Around Them

There is something very powerful about the way a parent speaks to a child.

Children are constantly becoming.

They are discovering who they are, what they are capable of, what they love, and what they want their future to look like.

And during that process, they need someone who will remind them:

“You can do this.”

Not every child will follow the same path.

Not every child will have the same strengths.

Not every child will achieve things at the same time.

And that's okay.

Parents shouldn't make their children feel as though they have to compete for love, attention or approval.

Every child deserves to feel equally valued.

Sometimes a child doesn't need another correction.

Sometimes they need encouragement.

Sometimes they don't need to hear what they're doing wrong.

Sometimes they need someone to notice what they're doing right.

Our words can become part of the voice a child carries inside their head for years.

We can use those words to build confidence, courage and hope.

Or we can unknowingly create walls that make a child doubt themselves.

And supporting a child's dreams doesn't mean agreeing with everything they do.

It means allowing them to dream.

It means guiding them without crushing their confidence.

It means correcting them without making them feel like a failure.

It means loving them without comparison.

Build them. Encourage them. Guide them. But never make them feel small for becoming who they were created to be.

Because one day our children will step into the world without us beside them every moment.

Let's make sure they leave home carrying confidence, not the weight of constantly wondering whether they were ever good enough.

☕ Today's tea question:

When your children think about the way you raised them one day, what do you hope they remember about how you made them feel?

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍 🤍 🤍

04/09/2026

☕👑 DAY 92 — YESTERDAY'S TEA CONVERSATION

What Happens When You Feel Invisible?

Yesterday was a day when I honestly didn't feel like doing my Tea Moment.

Sometimes our hearts get tired.

Sometimes something happens and it touches a place inside us that has been hurting for a long time.

You can be surrounded by people and still feel alone.

You can be part of someone's life and still wonder if your place really matters.

And sometimes you start asking yourself:

“Do people really see me for who I am?”

Maybe you've felt that way too.

Maybe you've spent years being there for others, making sacrifices, showing up and doing what you can, but somehow you still feel unseen.

After a while, that feeling can become heavy.

You may even start wondering if you belong where you are.

But I've been reminding myself of something important:

Being overlooked does not make me less valuable.

My worth isn't decided by how much attention I receive or whether people recognise everything I do.

I know who I am.

I know what I carry.

I know the heart I have.

And perhaps sometimes we need to stop looking outside ourselves for proof that we matter.

Because we matter, even when we don't feel seen.

And if a place constantly makes you question your worth, it's okay to start thinking about what kind of environment you want for yourself and the people you love.

Sometimes choosing a different path isn't about running away.

Sometimes it's about choosing a place where your heart can breathe.

☕ Today's tea question:

Have you ever been in a place where you felt unseen, even though you were right there?

If you have, I hope you remember this:

You don't become less valuable simply because someone failed to see your value. 🤍

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍 🤍 🤍

02/09/2026

☕👑 DAY 91 — TODAY'S TEA CONVERSATION

Not Everything Deserves Your Energy

Have you ever had something happen and realised afterwards how much of your day you gave to it?

A comment someone made.
A situation that didn't go your way.
Something you couldn't change.
Or simply something that kept playing in your mind.

Sometimes we give things far more of ourselves than they deserve.

We replay what happened, think about what we should have said, and carry something that may have lasted only a few minutes for the rest of the day.

But does everything deserve that much of us?

Not every comment needs an answer.
Not every situation needs our involvement.
Not every opinion needs our attention.

Our energy is limited, so where we spend it matters.

Sometimes choosing not to argue isn't losing. Sometimes walking away is wisdom.

So ask yourself:

“Is this worth the space I'm giving it?”

If the answer is no, it's okay to put it down.

Take your energy back and give it to the things that truly matter, to the people you love, the dreams you're building, and yourself.

Because your energy is precious.

Spend it wisely. 🤍

☕ Today's tea question:
What has been taking more of your energy than it deserves?

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen 🤍🤍🤍

01/09/2026

☕🌸 TEA CONVERSATION — DAY 90 🌸☕

A New Month Doesn’t Have to Be a New You

September is here. 🌸

And somehow, when a new month begins, we can feel like we need to start over completely.

New month. New goals. New plans. New version of ourselves.

But what if you don’t need to become a “new you”?

What if you can simply continue being you — just taking things one day at a time?

Maybe you didn’t accomplish everything you wanted to in August. Maybe some things are still unfinished. Maybe you’re still figuring out what you want, where you’re going, or what your next step should be.

That’s okay.

A new month doesn’t erase what happened before it. It simply gives you another opportunity to keep going.

You don’t have to rush into September trying to prove something. You don’t have to suddenly have all the answers. You don’t have to change everything about yourself because the calendar changed.

Just take today.

Do what you can.

Learn what you need to learn.

Pray about what you don’t understand.

And allow yourself to grow into whatever God is calling you to become, without putting pressure on yourself to have it all figured out at once.

September doesn’t need a perfect version of you. It just needs the real you to keep showing up. 🤍

“This is the day that the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” — Psalm 118:24

So, as we begin this new month, let’s not put unnecessary pressure on ourselves.

Let’s take September as it comes, one day at a time.

And remember… you are allowed to still be figuring things out. 🌸☕

👑☕Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍🤍🤍

31/08/2026

☕👑 Today's Tea Conversation

Life can change in an instant.

One moment everything feels normal, and then something happens that reminds us just how quickly things can be different.

We make plans.

We plan for tomorrow, next week, next month and even years ahead.

And there is nothing wrong with planning. We need dreams, goals and things to look forward to.

But sometimes we become so focused on what is coming next that we forget to notice what we have right now.

The ordinary day.

The people around us.

The things we normally don't think twice about.

The ability to get up, move around, laugh, work, make plans and simply live our lives.

We can become so used to these things that we forget they are gifts.

You know what you have today, but you don't know what tomorrow will bring.

That isn't meant to make us afraid of tomorrow.

It's meant to make us more aware of today.

Maybe the reminder isn't to live in fear of what might happen.

Maybe it's simply to stop treating today like it's ordinary.

Because this day will never come back.

This exact moment will pass.

And one day, we may look back and realise that what felt like an ordinary day was actually something very special.

So let's not spend today wishing it away.

Let's not be so busy waiting for the next chapter that we miss the page we're currently on.

There will always be another goal.

Another plan.

Another thing to worry about.

But right now...

We're here.

And that is worth appreciating.

☕ Today's tea question:

What is something in your life that has become so normal that you've stopped appreciating just how special it really is?

Maybe today is a good day to notice it again.

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍 🤍 🤍

30/08/2026

☕👑 Today's Tea Conversation

Respect is something we all want to receive.

But sometimes we forget that respect is something we also need to give.

It shouldn't depend on someone's age.

It shouldn't depend on their position.

It shouldn't depend on whether we agree with them.

And it certainly shouldn't depend on whether we think they are important enough to deserve it.

Respect goes both ways.

Adults deserve respect.

Children deserve respect.

Parents deserve respect.

Grandparents deserve respect.

And every person sitting around the table deserves to feel valued and heard.

That doesn't mean we will always agree.

Families will have different opinions.

People will see things differently.

Sometimes we will even hurt each other's feelings without meaning to.

But disagreement doesn't give us permission to speak badly to each other.

Being older doesn't make someone's feelings less important.

Being younger doesn't mean their feelings don't matter.

And being frustrated doesn't give us an excuse to forget our manners.

I think respect is seen most clearly when we're upset.

It's easy to be kind when everything is going our way.

The real test is how we speak when we're irritated, how we respond when we disagree, and how we treat someone when we don't see things the same way.

We can't control how everyone treats us.

But we can decide what kind of person we will be.

We can speak with care.

We can listen before reacting.

We can disagree without being disrespectful.

And we can teach our children that respect isn't something they only give to people older than them.

It's something we give because every person has value.

☕ Today's tea question:

Do I give the same respect that I expect from others?

And when I'm frustrated, can people still see the respect in the way I speak and act?

Maybe that's where change begin, not with what everyone else should do, but with what we choose to do.

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍 🤍

29/08/2026

☕👑 Today's Tea Conversation

Have you ever asked someone for advice when, deep down, you already knew what you needed to do?

Maybe you talked to a friend.

Maybe you prayed about it.

Maybe you kept thinking about it, hoping something would change.

Maybe you even looked for a sign.

But somewhere inside, you already knew the answer.

The problem wasn't knowing.

The problem was accepting it.

Sometimes we know we need to let something go, but we're not ready.

We know we need to say no, but we feel guilty.

We know something isn't good for us, but it's familiar.

We know we need to have that difficult conversation, but we're afraid of how it might go.

And sometimes we keep asking the same question because we're hoping someone will give us the answer we want instead of the answer we already know.

I've been there.

I think many of us have.

The truth is, knowing what to do and actually doing it are two very different things.

And that's where courage comes in.

Not every right decision feels good.

Not every necessary change feels comfortable.

Sometimes accepting the truth means letting go of the hope that things will turn out differently.

But avoiding an answer doesn't make it disappear.

It only keeps us stuck between what we know and what we're willing to accept.

So maybe today, instead of asking for another answer, we can ask ourselves:

“What am I already knowing deep down, and what is stopping me from accepting it?”

We don't have to figure everything out today.

But we can be honest with ourselves.

Because sometimes the first step isn't finding the answer.

It's finally admitting that we already know it.

☕ Today's tea question:

Is there something you already know deep down, but you've been struggling to accept?

Maybe you don't need another sign.

Maybe you just need the courage to face what you already know.

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍 🤍 🤍

28/08/2026

☕👑 Today's Tea Conversation

Can I be honest about something?

Sometimes we feel guilty for wanting more.

We look at what we already have and think:

“I should just be grateful.”

And yes, we should appreciate what we have.

But being grateful doesn't mean we have to stop dreaming.

You can be thankful for your home and still hope for a better one.

You can appreciate the work you have and still dream of something bigger.

You can love your life and still desire a change.

You can thank God for where you are while believing He can take you somewhere new.

Wanting more doesn't automatically mean you're unhappy with what you have.

Sometimes it simply means you still have dreams in your heart.

And there's nothing wrong with that.

We don't have to choose between gratitude and ambition.

We don't have to feel guilty because we have goals that haven't happened yet.

We can look around and say:

“Thank You, God, for what I have.”

And at the same time say:

“I'm still trusting You for what I hope to have.”

Maybe that's the balance we need.

Don't overlook today's blessings because you're waiting for tomorrow's.

But don't bury tomorrow's dreams just because today isn't perfect.

Be thankful for the present.

Keep working towards the future.

And trust that wanting more doesn't make you ungrateful.

☕ Today's tea question:

Is there something you're thankful for today while still hoping and working towards something more?

Maybe you don't need to feel guilty about wanting it.

Maybe you simply need to carry that dream with gratitude.

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍 🤍 🤍

27/08/2026

☕👑 Today's Tea Conversation

How often do we wait for someone else to notice what we've achieved before we allow ourselves to feel proud?

We wait for the congratulations.

We wait for someone to say, “I see how hard you've worked.”

We wait for someone to notice the changes we've made.

But what about the things nobody sees?

The mornings you got up even when you didn't feel like it.

The difficult choices you made quietly.

The times you kept going without anyone cheering you on.

The small steps that may not look like much to someone else, but meant everything to you.

Those things count too.

Not every achievement needs to be announced.

Some victories are personal.

Some milestones are private.

And some of the things you should be most proud of may never make it onto social media or receive a single “well done.”

That doesn't make them less important.

You know what it took to get there.

You know the moments you nearly gave up.

You know how much courage it took to keep moving.

So don't wait for someone else to give you permission to celebrate yourself.

Be proud of the progress nobody else noticed.

Be proud of the choices you made when nobody was watching.

Be proud of the person you are becoming.

And remember, being proud of yourself doesn't mean thinking you're better than anyone else.

It simply means recognising:

“I know how far I've come, and I'm grateful I didn't give up on myself.”

☕ Today's tea question:

What is something you've achieved that you haven't really stopped to celebrate?

Maybe today is the day you finally give yourself a little credit.

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍 🤍 🤍

27/08/2026

☕👑 Yesterday's Tea Conversation — Day 84

Yesterday was supposed to be Day 84, but unfortunately I had so many technical problems with my phone that I couldn't post our Tea Moment.

And honestly, I felt really sad about it.

After showing up for 83 days, missing a day made me feel like I had somehow messed up the whole journey.

But then I reminded myself:

One missed day doesn't erase all the days before it.

Sometimes life doesn't go according to our plans.

Sometimes technology fails us. 😅

Sometimes we're simply not able to do what we wanted to do.

And when that happens, we can be so hard on ourselves.

We focus on the one thing we didn't do and forget everything we have already accomplished.

Maybe you've experienced that too.

You miss one workout and feel like you've ruined your progress.

You miss a day of prayer and feel like you've failed.

You fall out of a routine and decide there's no point starting again.

You have one bad day and suddenly think you're back at the beginning.

But you're not.

One missed day is just one missed day.

It doesn't erase the effort that came before it.

It doesn't take away the lessons you've learned.

It doesn't cancel your progress.

And it certainly doesn't mean you should give up.

Sometimes the best thing you can do is simply say:

“Yesterday didn't go as planned. Today, I continue.”

No guilt.

No beating yourself up.

Just begin again.

Because consistency was never about getting everything right every single day.

Sometimes consistency looks like coming back after the day didn't go right.

So if you've missed a day, fallen behind or had a setback recently, don't let that one moment convince you that you've failed.

Look at how far you've already come.

Then take the next step.

☕ Today's tea question:

Have you ever let one bad day make you forget all the good days that came before it?

Maybe today is your reminder that you can simply begin again.

☕👑 Until our next cup of tea...

Love Queen R 🤍 🤍

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