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11/07/2017

SET SEXUAL BOUNDARIES!
(For all Christians: pastors, deacons, deaconesses, elders, departmental leaders, members)
“I made a covenant with my eyes; how then could I entertain thoughts against a virgin? (Job 31:1, NET BIBLE')
Sexual immorality is on the increase all over the world. Adultery is fast becoming the norm and men of God are also joining the club. Married women are not left out, many are having secret lovers and emotional affairs are becoming the order of the day.
The rate at which immorality is increasing is alarming! It is spreading fast into every nook and cranny and children are also being initiated into the club. It's no news that 4, 5 years old kids now have s*x with each other. Staying s*xually pure these days is becoming a Herculean task.
One of the reasons people fall flat into illicit s*x is over confidence. The stupid belief that you can be free around the opposite s*x and nothing would happen!
A lot will happen! One of the ways you can stay s*xually pure whether married or single these end time is to set strict boundaries. If you are too careless around the opposite s*x, you will fall flat on your face! That is the truth. The earlier you believe this and work on it, the better. You can't be careless around the opposite s*x and hope to stay s*xually pure, set boundaries!
There are some people who can't be your friends, raise the standard. Any body can call you names, that's their headache, you have your destiny to protect. As a rule, I don't make friends with liars, gossips and jealous people. They make life so complicated. If you believe in illicit s*x, we can't be friends, period!
Monitor your chats. Don't allow anybody send you flirty messages, no matter how innocent it sounds, warn them and if they refuse to stop, block them!
Limit the hugs and touches. I don't hug women as a rule. If I must hug, my wife must be around and you should hug both of us. If your hugging anointing is only for me, I want none of it.
Don't allow anybody call you pet names (except your close family members and same s*x friends), it doesn't make any sense. Pet names turn the opposite on, if you don't know that, know it right now.
Be sensitive to attractions. Don't be naive around the opposite s*x, know when a man/ woman is s*xually attracted to you and move back from that person. If they focus too much on your physique and body, they are s*xually attracted to you, move back.
Know when you are s*xually attracted to someone and move back. It's perfectly normal to have chemistry for someone. Marrying the greatest man on earth or the most beautiful, virtuous woman in the universe will not automatically stop you from being attracted to someone else. Know when the thought of another man/ woman get you excited and move back.
Don't jump at new relationships. Give it time. Study the person, know what they stand for, see if your core values are compatible, if not, move back!
Leadership attracts all kinds of people. If you are a leader or you are gifted, talented or intelligent, the opposite s*x will show more interest in you, be careful whom you allow to get close to you.
Accepts gifts with care. Men don't joke with their time and money. If he spends so much time and money on you especially when you do not ask, he may one day ask for s*x. Stop begging men for money. Work with your two hands and raise your standard. Men will respect and honour you for it.
Work on your marriage. Fix the problem as soon as possible or else you get attracted to someone who gives you what you lack in your marriage, adultery is the result.
Be prayerful, be watchful. Jesus says "watch and pray that ye may not fall into temptation..."
Don't stay with the opposite s*x in a dark or lonely room.
Don't counsel the opposite s*x on a bed in a lonely room.
Avoid provocative dresses and pictures. Let your spouse or parents advise you on what is okay for you.
Mind the pictures you post on the social media, if it is getting unecessary opposite s*x attention, delete it.
Don't visit the opposite s*x alone, especially at night. It doesn't make sense.
These and more are the things you need to do to stay s*xually pure in this 21st century.
People may laugh at you, it doesn't matter. They may call you a neurotic, psychotic, fanatic, over sensitive or paranoid, don't give a damn! Your destiny is too precious to waste on the altar of sin. Avoid friends who make fun of holiness and make friends with people who appreciate purity and holiness.
Finally, avoid the second look, as far possible. I agree perfectly with Job on his resolution never to look lustfully at any lady. Yes, you can avoid the second look. Set your boundaries and never allow anyone to compromise your holiness.
Stay blessed.

05/07/2017

I love this write-up so I copied it from another wall. Pls read.

The world is full of women but only few wives". Many women don't know that being a woman does not necessarily mean you can be a wife to a man. There are certain qualities that qualifies a woman to be a good wife to the husband she's married to. Some men break up their relationships or marriages because they later found out that the woman they are living with is not yet a wife. The wedding will give you the title wife, but to your husband the things you do will determine whether he's married to a woman or a wife. This is why the bible says " he that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord", meaning you can get a woman and still not find a wife. Looking at the acronym of the word wife, we'll discover certain characters that makes every woman a good wife for her husband. WIFE
W : WISE - Every wife is a wise woman like Abigail. She advices her husband about many things that will affect their future, family, children, finances and the like. They look into the future and not the present. In fact, any woman who is always concerned about the present and doesn't talk about the future is not yet a wife. Because if they are wise they give the due respect to their husbands knowing they are the head of the relationship and don't compete with them.
I : INDUSTRIOUS - Every wife is a hardworking person. They are always willing to work and help their husbands. They don't want their husbands to shoulder all the family load alone, but try as much as possible to give a helping hand. In fact, they are not consumers but rather contributors. Their work starts from the home, they are not lazy and do not require the supervision of their husbands before cleaning, cooking, washing or attending to their responsibilities. The truth is they love work.
F : FAITHFUL - Every wife is a faithful partner, they love their husbands and only him. They love their husbands in both good and bad times. They are not like other women whose love grows when they see success and money and vanish when there is hardships. They will never share themselves secretly or privately with other men at workplaces or church behind their husbands.
E : ENDURE - Every good wife is a gift from God and what makes them stand out is their ability to stick to their husbands till the end. They come into the marriage to love you irrespective of what comes your way and are willing to stand with their husbands to face the odds of life. They don't care about your beginning, they are only interested in the vision of the man and where he's going in life. Because they know that right men have vision and know where they are going. If you are a man and find such a woman never let her go.

AS A WOMAN CAN THESE CHARACTERISTICS BE SEEN IN YOU? CAN YOUR MAN SAY WITH CONFIDENCE, I HAVE FOUND A WIFE? IF NOT ITS NEVER TOO LATE TO START LEARNING AND BRANDING YOURSELF FOR A BETTER FUTURE.

WOMEN ARE BORN BUT A WIFE IS A GIFT FROM GOD.

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