08/08/2026
Everybody’s right.
Yes, I know how controversial that sounds.
When I was growing up, my mother would often say, “You may be right.” Years later, Frank Disney helped me understand something even deeper: everybody’s right.
Frank told me the story of four blind men standing around an elephant.
One touched the elephant’s tail and described something that felt like a snake. Another touched its broad side and described something entirely different. Each man truthfully described the part of the elephant he could reach.
None of them possessed the whole elephant alone.
When their perspectives were brought together, however, more of the elephant became visible.
I met Frank while I was transitioning into Torah. He remained part of my life as I transitioned out of Torah and continued researching how different religions, cultures, spiritual traditions, and human beings understand our Creator.
The more perspectives I encountered, the less interested I became in deciding which person must be wrong.
Every person sees through a belief system shaped by their experiences, culture, wounds, revelations, research, spiritual encounters, and the particular part of the elephant they can currently reach. What they perceive is real from where they stand.
That does not mean discernment disappears or that harmful behavior becomes harmless. Beliefs and actions still bear fruit—and I pay attention to the fruit.
It means I no longer need you to be wrong for my understanding to have meaning.
So, in my imaginary Oprah giveaway moment:
You’re right!
You’re right!
Everybody’s right!
Perhaps each of us is holding another part of the elephant.
What might we discover about one another—and about our Creator—if we stopped fighting over who possesses the whole elephant and began listening to what everyone else can feel?
That is what we are unveiling.
This image is an AI-created, affectionate parody inspired by Oprah Winfrey’s iconic television giveaway moments. Oprah Winfrey did not say or endorse this message.