01/13/2026
I’m excited to share more of my WHY with y’all this year. Please bear with me over the next few post as I try my best to express all that feel and all that I am learning and want to share with you.
Last year, I spent a lot of time diving deep inward - asking myself what keeps me here, still offering this work after 10 +years in the wedding world.
It’s not bc it’s trendy. It’s not for the money - and it’s definitely not for instagram clout.
ꃼ It’s ritual ꃼ
I enjoy the ritual of photographing love.
Making meaning and marking time is one of the most human things we do. And weddings, at their best, are exactly that.
Weddings are rituals.
Even when people don’t call them that.
A ritual is simply this: a set of symbolic actions that marks a life change and makes it real in your body, your community, and your memory.
A wedding does that by design. It’s one of the few places in modern life where we all agree: this moment matters.
Here’s what’s already happening:
You gather witnesses (even if it’s just the desert, the sky, and one best friend).
Love becomes witnessed, not just felt privately.
You cross a threshold from “we” into “we’re married.” There’s a before and an after.
You speak vows or intentions, which is basically the oldest human ritual there is: saying the truth out loud.
You exchange symbols (rings or a shared object) to anchor an invisible promise into something tangible.
You’re acknowledged. The people around you mirror back: we see you, we bless this (even if it’s just your photographer present)
And you celebrate because joy is also ritual. It seals the moment into the nervous system.
So when I talk about ritual design, I’m not adding something weird or overly spiritual.
I’m making the built-in ritual feel personal, unrushed, and true to you. 🤎 and i’m hoping it will encourage you to design your own for any and no reason.
A ritual you can relive and return to. A ritual you can feel in your bones.