
07/31/2025
The list of things your guests will dislike about me are the things you WILL love about me
đ Keeping up with the timeline is my number one priority on your wedding day. We didnât just spent hours talking about the logistics to throw it out of the window? So, sorry family or friends⌠you donât get to give me advice on when to cut the cake or open the dance floor
đ The bar opening after the ceremony. In some instances we have couples offering a welcome drink (love that for you all) but guests get a bit excited that they want to start passing around shots before the couple have shared their vows.. so sorry if I am inconveniencing your excitement but I want you to stay present for the very important moments of my coupleâs day.
đ Family photos before ceremony or after ceremony. This one is not always well received because family wants to enjoy the day and feel relaxed.. I get it⌠but these pictures are going to be so well loved once the day is over so, if we ask you to show up 1 hour prior the ceremony starts or miss a good chunk of the cocktail hour I hope you donât hate me for it but thatâs how it made the most sense on the timeline and believe me, you will be so glad you got the time to have a memory of this very important dayđđ˝
I can go on and on about how sometimes I get seen as the bad guy during a wedding day but I do it because My couple hired me to keep everything going smoothly and that sometimes comes with me shutting down other peopleâs expectations during wedding day and I am so for it đđĽš
Would you agree? Or share your takes đŤ˘