09/27/2025
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Marry a man who wants to be a husband.
Not just someone chasing a title, but someone ready to carry the weight of love.
With hands that hold steady, a heart that stays soft, and a presence that doesnāt disappear when life gets hard.
Thereās a difference.
A man who wants a girlfriend might want the picture, the comfort, and the warmth of your body.
But a man who longs to be a husband,
heās not just choosing the idea of you.
Heās choosing the work.
The we instead of the me.
A man that wants to be a husband shows up with commitment, care and consistency.
He protects the bond when itās fragile,
nurtures the connection when itās strained, and walks beside you not only in the sunshine, but through the storm.
Heāll celebrate your wins without making them about him.
Heāll listen when you speak, not just to reply, but to understand your heart.
Heāll see your joy as his joy, your peace as part of his purpose.
A man who only wants a girlfriend.
Heās asking what you can give.
How you can fit into his world.
But love isnāt built on consumption.
Itās built on contribution.
Donāt mistake desire for devotion.
Donāt confuse romance with reliability.
Look deeper.
Look for the one whoās ready to build a life with you.
The one who prays with you to grow closer to God.
Who sees your soul, not just your silhouette.
Choose the love that feels like teamwork, and not a test you have to pass.
Choose the man who chooses you not just once, but every single day the sun rises.
Because the right partner doesnāt complete you.
He complements you.
He stands with you.
So you both rise stronger, braver, and more free than you could be alone.
Always remember .... youāre not asking for too much. Youāre just holding out for whatās real.
And thatās a kind of strength the world doesnāt always recognize ....
But one day, he will.
~ Cody Bret