08/23/2026
Our wedding-planning “Toxic Traits”
🤍 We simply cannot do plain. We prefer color, texture, personality, character and thoughtful details that make the celebration feel unmistakably YOU ✨
✨🎂 ✨We adore a statement wedding cake, and the bigger, the better! Cake bakers may hate to see us coming— 🫣but, the cake should be a focal point and design moment, not a table accessory or a quick serve.
🌺🌿 🌺Speaking of BIG, we love a Texas size table install or centerpiece. Drama wins every time!
🥂 🍹And, we will mix up the glassware—and probably suggest another unexpected style, too.
⏳ We refuse to rush a wedding. We will advocate for an extra hour simply so the celebration has room to breathe and you are able to enjoy every precious moment.
🍸🍷No matter the level of expertise, one bartender for every 75 guests is not nearly enough. Give us approximately one for every 45–50 guests. We would much rather be considered overstaffed than have guests waiting in line. Believe us, it’s worth it!
👥 Speaking of staffing, every VOLARE wedding includes Caroline as your lead wedding planner, and not 1 or 2, but ✨3✨Wedding Day Concierges, because we believe exceptional service requires wisdom and exceptional support.
Are these really toxic traits? Probably not.
But we are unapologetically adamant about beautiful design, unhurried celebrations and taking extraordinarily good care of our couples and their guests.
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