04/24/2020
Taylor here- working long days and dreaming up fun designs for our clients. Can we be real for a minute on ?
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Sometimes silence or pushing positivity all of the time can come across as having a lack of compassion for the suffering around you. I (Taylor) wouldn’t ever want to communicate that and can admit that this is an uncomfortable season for our us as well. If you’re new around here, yes, we love the fine art of hospitality, having a sazerac, dance parties, and loving our families fiercely.
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But, today, we feel the weight of what’s going on in our industry. How do you remain steadfast when you see a $78 billion dollar industry, built by the blood sweat and tears of small businesses, come to a screeching halt?
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As a planner, I feel responsible for counseling clients on the best way to navigate what to do during a global pandemic-that feels weighty. As a friend to my clients, I grieve with and for them the ways they’re being asked to let go, for the time being, the exciting expectations they once had for their wedding day.
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Brides- please postpone your date and have that fun wedding. Don’t lose the joy and excitement of dreaming of your big day. It may be a different time of year, on a different day of the week, or with less people, but it’s still a day to celebrate your beautiful love story.
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Vendors- we need each other. If you’re struggling let’s be willing to put competition aside and figure out how to work together to weather this storm. We want to be here for you in whatever way we can be.
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Mamas of the bride/groom- we hurt with you too. As a mother myself, I cannot imagine the disappointment you’re feeling about these postponements and the what if’s playing out in your mind. Please continue to reach out so that we may be a friend to talk these things through at this time
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Lastly, if you’ve opted to read this far and you’re a bride without a planner- please reach out with questions. We're happy to help you navigate hard decisions.
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Happy Friday, y’all! Hang in there!