06/29/2026
10 Things Couples Tell Me They Wish They Knew Before Their Wedding Day
After filming weddings for nearly twenty years, certain themes keep appearing.
Not the color palettes.
Not the trends.
Not the things that looked beautiful for a moment.
The things people wish they protected.
The moments they wish they slowed down for.
The words they wish they had written down.
The ten minutes they wish they had taken alone together.
And the things they kept long after the flowers were gone.
The best wedding days aren’t perfect.
They’re present.
So I put together a free guide with ten observations from two decades behind the lens.
Not as rules.
Just reminders from someone who has had the privilege of witnessing hundreds of love stories.
If you’re planning a wedding, I hope it helps you focus on the things that matter most.
Download the full guide at the link in bio.
Because some stories are worth remembering.
And some things become family heirlooms.
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