09/01/2026
In Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Darcy was a man of considerable means. But having money and wasting money are two very different things.
That may be one of the most important lessons for couples planning a wedding today.
There is nothing wrong with elegance. Nothing wrong with beautiful flowers, wonderful food, a special venue, or adding something memorable to your celebration.
But somewhere along the way, “It’s for a wedding” became an excuse for couples to accept prices they might question anywhere else.
Elizabeth speaks the truth. Darcy gives the right response:
“You have the most money of anyone.”
“Yes, but I’m still not paying $14 per chair sash.”
That’s not being cheap. That’s knowing the difference between what you can afford and what something is worth.
A wedding should reflect your love, your personality, your priorities—and yes, your financial common sense.
Spend where it brings you joy.
Question what doesn’t make sense.
Never confuse a bigger bill with a better marriage.
True elegance is not measured by money.
BE MARRIED, NOT BROKE. ©
Love Deeply. Celebrate Wisely. Live Happily.