12/05/2025
I would like to add:
Not wanting to continue to being a burden.
If you leave you will be homeless with those kids.
No one wants to help someone like you.
Lying, cheating, getting caught and it’s still the person who was cheated, it’s their fault for not doing or being something small or insignificant.
Being told you are like the abuser by the abuser.
Withholding important personal information about yourself that will undoubtedly come around to hurt the victim .
LEARNING TO CRY SO SILENTLY, a room FULL of people do not notice.
For an abuser, anything that could destroy the world they built will be, kept very close and watched and stocked, see with an abuser the partner is property not a person.  The victim is chosen, based off of how well they can level up the abuser.
We seem to also forget there are some situations that don’t allow for the victim the abused the silenced sad to ever doubting victim to ever leave.
An abused person will always believe the world shut its doors to them, that they are stuck , and their only way out might be death.
