Jeff Pankratz Celebrations, Officiating, & Counseling

Jeff Pankratz Celebrations, Officiating, & Counseling Travels to MN, WI, ND, SD, IA

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This is the one.The end (or beginning) of my marriage? And it happened in 2017, 16 years into our marriage, about 9 year...
04/05/2026

This is the one.

The end (or beginning) of my marriage? And it happened in 2017, 16 years into our marriage, about 9 years ago now. I still believe — deeply — that the most powerful force in a marriage isn't compatibility or communication (though both matter). It's the life-giving, dead-things-made-new power of resurrection.

After a couple years of me putting my marriage and kids on the back burner for my career, I heard the honest truth from Anna- "Maybe well just go live with mom while you work." We still debate to this day if she said those exact words, BUT God knew I needed to hear what i thought I heard....Anna and the boys were leaving me.

My brain shut off for a couple day--- you know when an appliance just doesn't respond and it needs a complete 'reset'? Yeah that feeling. I was disappointed I did this to my marriage and family. I was mad at myself for driving them away.

The timeline gets confusing (because Im almost 50 now), but we had been watching the movie "The Greatest Showman" and in the film the lead character sacrifices his relationship with his wife to lead a world-renowned circus act. Fame, success and ambition broke apart his marriage and family. As it had mine.

By God's grace, He showed me a pathway to get out of my job, to return to my first loves of my wife, Anna, my three boys- Justus, Jason and Silas- to return to my identity and calling of coaching and counseling families, ministry teams, and non-profits through CREO Collective. He rescued me from death and gave me new life.

Marriages can come back. Families can be restored. People can change. Not because they tried harder — but because Something greater than their effort got involved.

Happy Easter. Whatever needed to come back to life in you, in your relationship, in your home — today is the day to believe it's possible.

The in-between is its own kind of holy.Holy Saturday doesn't get much attention. Nothing dramatic happens. It's just... ...
04/04/2026

The in-between is its own kind of holy.

Holy Saturday doesn't get much attention. Nothing dramatic happens. It's just... waiting. Sitting in the uncertainty between loss and hope.

In 2017 when my 16 yr marriage was surrounded by darkness of my own doing, I had no idea how Anna, I and the kids would pull through. I resigned from my job and wondered if I could even provide for my family. Nothing happened immediately and it was in that liminal moment where everything was scary. Uncertain. Feeling out to sea and adrift, not knowing where our ship would land....or crash and burn!

But every couple I've ever worked with knows this place. The season after a hard conversation. After a loss. After something broke and you're not sure yet what healing looks like.

You don't have to have it all figured out today. Sometimes the bravest thing is just staying. Present. Together. Trusting that what feels like an ending might be preparing the ground for something new. (The rest of our 2017 story is coming tomorrow for easter Sunday) ✨

You must have death to get to a resurrection.In 2017, my wife Anna and I went through a dark season in our marriage wher...
04/03/2026

You must have death to get to a resurrection.

In 2017, my wife Anna and I went through a dark season in our marriage where I was putting my work and career above our marriage & parenting my three boys.

We had been already married 16 yrs, but the darkness was building...struggling to really see and know each other...struggling to even know myself and what I truly wanted.

Our marriage was dying, and it took her blunt honesty, the movie "The Greatest Showman", and a couple eye-opening events to bring some severe pain into my life.

Finally the darkness had us surrounded....but through those events God graciously gave us both real clarity on what the problem really was, and how to understand one another in that moment.

He started teaching me where things went off track, he showed me where I began compromising who I was, and who he called me to be. He gave me a re-entry point into the heart of my wife and kids. I resigned from my job, waited, and prayed.

That's one of the truest things I've learned in 27 years of walking with couples... and it's the quiet truth of Good Friday too.

The hardest days in a marriage aren't the end of the story. They're often the greatest opportunities for growth and the hope of a resurrection!✨

Today holds grief. It's supposed to. But it also holds the kind of love that doesn't walk away when things get dark.

If you're in a hard season right now — in your relationship, your family, your own heart — you're not forgotten. The story isn't over. Something greater under the surface is coming, that will bring an opportunity to grow and be changed for the better. Hang on!🙌 (Rest of our marriage story is coming Easter Sunday!)

Twenty-seven years of sitting across from couples — and the question that never gets old is this one: What kind of love ...
04/03/2026

Twenty-seven years of sitting across from couples — and the question that never gets old is this one: What kind of love do you want your marriage to be built on?

Earlier today I sat with a new widow over a cup of hot cocoa - her husband of 21 years just passed last weekend in bed. When this woman and her newly-passed husband were engaged, 21 yrs ago, her daughter from a previous relationship had gotten pregnant at the young age of 15.

This widow explained to me that when she gave, her then fiance, the option to stay with her or leave gracefully (because of the emotional weight of caring for her daughter and grandchild), he replied...

"You wouldn't leave me, would you?"

Service. Presence. Staying at the table even when things get hard & complicated.

Tonight is Maundy Thursday. The night Jesus gathered his closest people, washed their feet, and said — this is what love looks like.

Not power. Not performance.

Service. Presence. Faithfulness. His disciples staying put when things got hard.

That's the kind of love marriages are built to last on. That the kind of love that makes a legacy. A movement of love. Love that turns the world upside down and causes people to notice.

Not perfect love. Sacrificial love. Lets grow something real in your premarital or marriage counseling that will last - book a free meetup in the first comment!

What would it look like to wash your partner's feet today — not literally, but in the way that costs you something? Even if things look really hard right now?

Being a wedding officiant, we serve and minister often into the wee hours of the night on Fridays and Saturdays. My brid...
03/31/2026

Being a wedding officiant, we serve and minister often into the wee hours of the night on Fridays and Saturdays. My bride, kids and I grab our local friends together on Sunday nights so were not in a traditional church on Sunday mornings. Some take their shots "Jeff, you really need to...." "Jeff, as a chaplain and pastor, you really should...." "Jeff, why doesn't your family go to church and why...."

Well.... 🤔

This is one of my favorite photos...it's a pre-wedding prayer huddle....it's like Easter morning for the heart. Just as Easter awakens hope, renewal, and new beginnings, this quiet moment before the ceremony is a celebration of love, faith, and the journey ahead. Its truly ONE new glorious life rising out of TWO 'spiritual' deaths of single people✝️✨

In those few minutes, as we gather to pray and reflect, trusting Jesus with our lives, I see couples find a calm within the chaos, allowing God to let the single person pass away...and find new hope, meaning & a reassurance that they’re not walking this path alone anymore. It's a true resurrection of power, purpose, and oneness! 💥

It’s a powerful reminder that love, grounded in faith and intention- between two souls being joined together- is one of the most sacred and miraculous moments we could every witness in our day and age.

It’s an honor to stand with them in these moments- feeling true resurrection power as God gives life to this new "one flesh" right before our eyes 😭
The promise of forever....together....right here, right now.

If you’re planning your wedding and want to incorporate those meaningful, faith-filled moments into your day—let’s talk. I’d love to create space for your love story to be celebrated in all its sacredness. Link in bio. 🤍

Kendra and Jonathan 🤍What began with as a simple message about meeting up to talk about their wedding, became an amazing...
03/30/2026

Kendra and Jonathan 🤍What began with as a simple message about meeting up to talk about their wedding, became an amazing conversation about 'romantic' golf outings, their shared values that they want to use to define their legacy, and a really cool love story involving a trip to Raising Canes for that addictive special sauce. 😂

And then what started as a meetup to talk about me officiating for them, quickly turned into something much more special. We started chatting about my heart for premarital counseling/coaching, and what I didn’t realize at the time was how much they would fall in love with the idea itself. Smiles, laughter, and even some harder things were shared....IN OUR FIRST MEETUP. So good! 🙌

They decided to do both: premarital counseling and officiating, because they wanted to build something strong from the start. And the best part? They’re not just planning a wedding- they’re actively strengthening their relationship and earning their MN marriage license discount along the way. 💍

That’s why I do what I do- because these moments are about more than just a ceremony. They’re about creating a foundation for a lifetime of love.

If you’re like Kendra and Jonathan- looking for someone who can walk with you through premarital coaching AND stand with you on your wedding day—let’s connect. I’d love to be part of your journey. Link in bio. 🤍

Three weddings from 2025 that I still think about...Three couples who let me into some of the most important conversatio...
03/28/2026

Three weddings from 2025 that I still think about...

Three couples who let me into some of the most important conversations of their lives...

Three ceremonies where I got to stand at the front and say- with full confidence- these two are ready. ✨

That Google review you're looking at? Wrecked me in the best possible way! Two introverted people who were nervous walking in, and left feeling seen, prepared, and genuinely excited about what's ahead. That's the whole thing right there. That's why I do this.

Here's what I want people to know- I don't show up, perform a ceremony, and disappear. Gross! By the time your wedding day arrives, I actually know you. I know your story, your quirks, what makes you laugh, what keeps you up at night, and what you're building together.

These aren't clients to me. They're friendships that started with a 30 minute zoom get-to-know-you, and turned into something I genuinely carry with me. 🥂

2025 was full. 2026 is already looking the same way — and I couldn't be more grateful for every couple trusting me with something this sacred.

If you're planning a 2026 wedding and want an officiant and premarital coach who will actually show up for you - not just on the day, but in random text messages when life gets messy and unpredictable- let's talk. Link in bio. 🤍

🤍 Yesterday Was a Gift.I had the honor of uniting in heartfelt joy, tears and prayer...Aaron & Abby at Crooked Willow i...
03/28/2026

🤍 Yesterday Was a Gift.
I had the honor of uniting in heartfelt joy, tears and prayer...Aaron & Abby at Crooked Willow in Osakis as they said "I do"... and I'm still carrying the weight of what a gift that was.

Abby lost her dad, Jeff, five years ago... unexpectedly. He loved his family well, and he loved the race track, and somewhere in that ceremony yesterday I genuinely believe he had the best seat in the house. Chatting before the ceremony with his mom and dad, grandma Evie and grandpa Al, with tears in our eyes was so special.

Abby, Aaron and I started our premarital coaching journey with their car tire blowing out. Then I had a C5-C6 spinal fusion. And somehow, we still did the work together. That's who these two are. Grit and grace, all the way through.

Detours don't disqualify the journey. Aaron & Abby proved that beautifully yesterday.

I couldn't stay for the reception, but before I left, I may have pulled the groomsmen aside and told them it was their sacred duty to make sure Aaron had a proper sendoff. I have no regrets. The photo of him being hoisted up by his guys with his tie around his head is everything. My work here is done. 😂

So grateful for everyone who made it special. Here's to you Mr & Mrs Berge!

Vendors-

🏣 Crooked Willow

📸 Nicole Hollenkamp Portrait Studio, LLC. - Nicole & Emma

🎵 Harmon Entertainment - DJ Courtney

🌸 MN Bloom Co

🧁 Two Ten Cakes

👨🏾‍🍳 Raaper's Eatery & Ale Catering

💇🏼 The Glamour Ranch

If you're planning a wedding and want someone to ride along on the adventure- not just the ceremony- I'd love to connect. 🙌 Link in bio

Oscar and Kaylee just made it official! Agreement signed, excitement through the roof, and yes… Kaylee is arriving to he...
03/27/2026

Oscar and Kaylee just made it official! Agreement signed, excitement through the roof, and yes… Kaylee is arriving to her wedding on horseback and I am not even a little bit calm about it. 🐴

This is what I love most about premarital coaching AND wedding officiating when the secret sauce all comes together....by the time we get to the table together, we're not strangers sitting across from one another- We're people who've done real work together, asked hard questions, and built something solid before the first vow is ever spoken. Oscar and Kaylee came in ready to grow, and when we watch them leave more prepared and more in love than when they arrived? That never gets old.

Here's to a marriage as adventurous as your entrance, Kaylee. Oscar, good luck-you gotta keep up with that spitfire lady of yours 🤗
Can't wait for your day in August! 🤍

Guess who is 6 weeks post cervical surgery, and was able to get out of this neck brace today!!!??? This guy! Just in tim...
03/27/2026

Guess who is 6 weeks post cervical surgery, and was able to get out of this neck brace today!!!??? This guy! Just in time for wedding rehearsal tonight with Aaron & at 🙌 Lets goooooo!!!

There could be so much said about our friendship Niko & .neuman but I'll let these photos do that for us 🤍 your Christma...
01/03/2026

There could be so much said about our friendship Niko & .neuman but I'll let these photos do that for us 🤍 your Christmas wedding was one of the most joyful expressions of the light, hope and joy that the two of you bring into the world! I'm so honored to be your Officiant, Premarital Coach....but infinitely more honored to be your friend 🤗 The Neuman legacy is just beginning and I'm here for it - so much love to you from big bro Jeff

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