11/26/2025
“In 20 years, you’re gonna wish you had more fun. So have more fun!”
I can’t even recall where I came across this first but it has become so central to how I operate that I’m glad my eyes flitted across it at some point in my lifetime.
Here’s the deal: no one gets to the end of their life and wishes they spent more time stressed out about the color of their napkins at their wedding or fighting over seating charts with their great-aunt Sally or skipping a holiday meal with family because they felt like they had to look a certain way. Now, I’m lucky enough to not know what I’ll wish I spent more time on in my life yet (I’m only in my mid-30s! I’m just a youth!), but I do know that I am gonna keep trying to squeeze as much joy out of this life as I can!
So what does this have to do with wedding planning? This is a distinct era of your life! It’s got a time boundedness that means you can really maximize the fun you feel in this time! But how do you do it?
🥳 Celebrate each win and decision. You found the band you like AND they’re available on your date? WOOHOO!
😘 Date nights aren’t just for reconnecting with your partner during your engagement era. Use them to keep connected to your friends. Talk about non-wedding things. Your people are going through but life stuff too! Hold space for everyone’s joy.
😎 Keep the bigger picture in perspective. As I like to say, you’ve already made the most difficult decision (deciding who to spend your life with), the rest of this is just frosting!
🥹 Remember that this is just one of maaaaaaany things you could be celebrating with your closest people throughout your life. It’s a big deal but it sure as hell shouldn’t be the last thing you celebrate!
What’s a line you’ve read or heard that still sticks with you and is informing how you’re planning your wedding? Tell me in the comments!
📸 by Whims & Joy (https://whimsandjoy.com)