06/22/2024
55 years ago today (in the early morning hours of June 22nd 1969) the woman who was known as Judy Garland physically left us.
I say that because Judy has never actually really left. In greater part because of the vast wealth of her work that as been left behind for every generation to see, enjoy and learn from.
From her films to her recordings, television specials, shows and various guest appearances.
But even beyond that, it is Judy’s spirit that is just as powerful, if not much more so than her brilliant work. Her life force is, in a word, indomitable. It is still very much a part of the mortal coil.
We are told that we are in this life to serve. However we do it is how we do it. To have purpose.
Judy’s purpose was to entertain, to delight, to enthrall, to touch. It is safe to say: Mission accomplished.
Of course, we mourn the loss. Even 55 years after her passing. Judy has been physically gone longer than she was here.
A friend once imparted to me this word. “Angelversary”.
To celebrate a loved ones life on the day that they passed on. Rather than to just focus on when they died or how they died. That does not mean to ignore your sadness or not to cry. That’s all part of the whole. But it is just as important to remember how they lived. To laugh and to smile.
Grief is not black and white. It is in fact imbued with every color of the rainbow.
Listen to Judy’s music today. Watch her movies or television shows. Eat a bowl of chili,
Potato salad, a cheeseburger or an ice cream cone (some of her favorite foods). Tell a good joke about flatulence(Nothing made her laugh harder).
Yes, you can cry, too. It’s all part of the process.
Even more than her signature song, there is one song that sums up Judy’s life and her connection to people. Ironically she sang it just 7 months before her passing.
If we are doing it right, it should sum up all of our lives and our connection to those we love.
Thank you, Judy. Happy “Angelversary”.
Judy Garland appearing on the Tonight Show in Dec. 1968 singning "It's All For You"