Emily Monus Events

Emily Monus Events Serving the New York City area, specializing in LGBTQ+ & vegan wedding and events coordination.

If you got engaged recently and are quietly (or loudly) starting to think about what your wedding could be… hi, hello, w...
01/02/2026

If you got engaged recently and are quietly (or loudly) starting to think about what your wedding could be… hi, hello, welcome!

I’m officially booking weddings for late 2026 and 2027, and I’m a wedding planner who specializes in working with q***r couples who want their wedding to feel intentional, personal, and actually fun to plan. You bring the ideas, I bring the joy (and the logistics!).

There’s no one right way to do this. Big, small, traditional, weird, somewhere in between. My job is to help you figure out what your version looks like and then run the show so you get to stay present for all of it.

If you’re newly engaged and starting to poke around, my DMs are open 💗

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You don’t need a wedding planner.“Is liar. Liar told you that.” 🏒Your venue, caterer, and DJ are all on different teams....
12/30/2025

You don’t need a wedding planner.

“Is liar. Liar told you that.” 🏒

Your venue, caterer, and DJ are all on different teams.
A planner is the (loving!) referee.

Your wedding day may have a plot twist.
A planner handles it so you never know.

Let’s work together so I can set you up for success,
and you can go to the cottage. 🏆🏡🦆

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Venue & Catering .farms
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DJ /
Botanicals
Beauty
Transportation
Alison’s Outfit
Alison’s Rings
Alli’s Outfit
Alli’s Rings
Couple

This Christmas, I’m wishing for weddings that feel warm, intentional, and full of q***r joy. ✨If that’s on your wedding ...
12/15/2025

This Christmas, I’m wishing for weddings that feel warm, intentional, and full of q***r joy. ✨

If that’s on your wedding wish list, I might belong on there too. 🎁

If you’re starting to plan, I told Santa my DMs are open. 🎄

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✨The Magic of Legacy Clients✨There is something unbelievably tender about legacy clients. When a couple brings their fri...
12/10/2025

✨The Magic of Legacy Clients✨

There is something unbelievably tender about legacy clients. When a couple brings their friends to their wedding and those friends later ask me to walk with them through their own planning journey, it hits me right in the heart.

💫 Kaitlyn & Camille brought me Nolan & Brennan (and also Peter and Brian!).
💫 Clair & Nora brought me Paige & Nicole.
💫 Amanda & Briar brought me Jesse & Renae.
💫 AC & Caitlyn brought me Danne & Shane.
💫 Glenn & Rahi brought me Ramya & Taij.

Every time it happens, it feels like the universe whispering that the work matters. That the calm, the joy, the care we created together stayed with them long after the last song. That they trusted me enough to pass my name to the people they love.

Legacy clients remind me why I do this. They make the job feel personal in the sweetest way. They turn weddings into woven stories where each celebration connects to the next.

If you have been part of this circle, thank you. It is one of the greatest gifts of my career.

Photo Credits:
Camille & Kaitlyn’s Wedding:
Nolan & Brennan’s Wedding:
Nora & Clair and Paige & Nicole’s Weddings:

If I wasn’t afraid to hurt your feelings, here is what I would lovingly tell you while we plan your wedding together. Ho...
12/08/2025

If I wasn’t afraid to hurt your feelings, here is what I would lovingly tell you while we plan your wedding together. Honest truths from your q***r wedding planner who wants your day to feel joyful, grounded, and fully aligned with who you are as a couple.

These are the reminders that keep planning intentional and keep you focused on what actually matters.
Save this for later, share it with your partner, and tell me which slide you needed today.

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12/04/2025

The sigh heard around the world from wedding pros everywhere…

You thought I was done? Oh no, henny. The q***r excellence continues.When you’re fabulous enough to know that life is a ...
11/30/2025

You thought I was done? Oh no, henny. The q***r excellence continues.

When you’re fabulous enough to know that life is a performance, your wedding cabaret has to be pitch perfect. Peter and Brian served a show that felt one wink away from Liza jumping out of the wings.

If you want a wedding that eats, leaves no crumbs, and then asks for an encore, I’ve got you.

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Venue
Catering
Bar Service
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Videography
DJ
Botanicals
Rentals
Lighting
Dessert
Rings
Suits
Neon Sign
Couple

Name a more iconic le***an wedding favor. I’ll wait. 🧗‍♀️🔗Hailey & Becky’s guests left with the ultimate le***an souveni...
11/12/2025

Name a more iconic le***an wedding favor. I’ll wait. 🧗‍♀️🔗

Hailey & Becky’s guests left with the ultimate le***an souvenir: a carabiner.

What would your q***r wedding favor be?

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Venue Taylor Pavilion
Bar: + .2u
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Rentals & Decor: +
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Drag Queens:
Percussionist: +
Becky’s Outfit:
Hailey’s Outfit:
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Designing your wedding should feel like you. Not like a trend cycle or a board of “shoulds.” The best weddings begin wit...
11/10/2025

Designing your wedding should feel like you. Not like a trend cycle or a board of “shoulds.” The best weddings begin with what already feels true.

If wedding design feels overwhelming, try this:

Close Pinterest.
Look around your home.
Notice what you already love.

The colors you live with. The textures you reach for. The spaces where you feel most like yourselves. These are clues.

A few guiding ideas:
🌈 Start with the feeling you want the day to hold
🌈 Choose details that feel personal, not perfect
🌈 Let your story guide the palette, objects, and materials
🌈 One meaningful touch goes farther than ten trendy ones

You do not need to reinvent yourselves to get married. You just need to honor who you already are.

If you want support bringing your story into your design, my inbox is open.

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11/09/2025

Wedding season wrapped in pure joy for us at Emily Monus Events.

Austin and Luke gave us the most incredible finale.

Personal ceremony expertly led by their friend Nina. Stunning florals by .studio. Live music by Austin’s stepmother, Stacy. A dance floor that didn’t stop from DJ Karin and with . A Surprise drag queen. All heart.

My first wedding at and I already can’t wait to be back.

If you’re newly engaged in NYC and want your wedding to feel personal, joyful, and you, I’d love to connect.

Austin & Luke’s Team:
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Planning a wedding can feel like a lot. Especially when you are trying to make it feel like you and honor your story, yo...
11/03/2025

Planning a wedding can feel like a lot. Especially when you are trying to make it feel like you and honor your story, your values, your community, and your joy.

And if you are part of the LGBTQ+ community, you may also be navigating spaces and conversations that were not designed with you in mind. I see that. I care about that. I build my planning process around making sure you feel held, respected, and celebrated every step of the way.

My job is to help you make confident decisions, stay grounded in what matters most, and bring your celebration to life in a way that feels joyful, connected, and fun.

If you are newly engaged or already somewhere in the planning process and want support that meets you where you are, I would love to talk.

Wedding Management, Partial Planning, and Full Service options are open for 2026 and 2027!

Let’s craft a wedding that feels like home.

📍 Jersey City based, planning anywhere love takes us
🌈 Serving LGBTQ+ and allied couples
💌 Link in bio to inquire

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