09/29/2026
COMMENT "FACTS" BESTIE & BROS BRUNCH 11.14.26
Release should never be your first response to conflict in friendship.
We live in a culture that is quick to say, “Cut her off,” but I believe friendship requires wisdom, grace, accountability, and discernment.
Before you release them, have you checked in with yourself? Have you communicated? Have you given her an opportunity to understand the hurt? Have you looked at the friendship as a whole instead of reacting to one moment? Have you prayed about it?
But sis… there are also times when you’ve done the work.
You’ve communicated. You’ve extended grace. You’ve tried to reconcile. You’ve prayed. And yet, the same harmful patterns continue—with no accountability, no remorse, and no real effort to change.
That’s when release may be necessary.
You do not have to continuously give someone access to you simply because you have history with them. Sometimes walking away is the healthiest decision you can make.
But let release be a decision made with clarity, not anger. Wisdom, not impulse. Discernment, not emotion.
And if you’re ready to surround yourself with women who are committed to becoming better and showing up better in friendship, comment “BFS” and I’ll send you information on joining the Better Friend Society. 💕
-Signed, Big Sis 🫶🏾💕