07/21/2026
"Let’s talk about it 👇🏼
⚡️A champagne toast. We realized some people don’t even like champagne - we just asked everyone to raise the glass they already had. Bonus: no need to rent flutes or buy extra bottles!
⚡️A massive tiered cake. Go with a small “cutting cake” and then serve slices of a big sheet cake! This will save you hundreds, if not thousands! No one will notice and everyone will get dessert. Another option is no cake and just have a dessert table instead.
⚡️Favors for every guest. They either get left behind or tossed. If you really want to do something, make it edible or charitable.
⚡️Ceremony programs. Your guests will skim them and toss them five minutes later. Not worth the money!
⚡️Full invitation suites with RSVP cards and postage. We sent a single-page invite with a QR code linking to our website for all details and RSVPs. Easy peasy!
⚡️Separate florals for ceremony and reception. A great way to make your floral budget stretch is to repurpose your ceremony arrangements throughout your reception! We took our ceremony arrangements and placed them on our bar, dessert table and by the DJ set up.
⚡️Booking vendors before building a budget. Big mistake. You do not want to lock in expenses before you even know what you can spend.
⚡️Trying to include everyone’s opinion. It stretched our plans (and our dollars) way too thin. Don’t let this happen to you!
⚡️Using a generic checklist. It told us what to do, not how to make decisions based on what actually mattered to us.
Buuuttttt now that we know better, we can do better 👏🏻"
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