06/14/2026
Ahh, the last 3-4 months before your big day, this phase of wedding planning tends to be busy. There are countless moving pieces in those final months before the wedding often bring a lot of questions, opinions & details that need attention. Friends & family mean well, yet sometimes they bring even more questions to the table. Everyone seems to have thoughts about where people should sit, what traditions should happen & how things should be done.
If you're watching Donkey having a meltdown & thinking, "Same," know you're in good company. Most couples reach this stage at some point, eventually all of those decisions turn into the wedding experience you've been building all along.
As a wedding planner, I can tell you that this part is very normal. Having a wedding planner helps because much of the communication, logistics & behind-the-scenes coordination gets taken off your plate. You're still creating a wedding that's uniquely yours, your voice is part of every decision.
So if you've found yourself wondering why the seating chart has become your entire personality, or you've considered running away to elope somewhere in the middle of finalizing table numbers, know this:
You're not alone.
The good news? Eventually, you stop debating where Cousin Kevin should sit & start celebrating with the people you love.
If you're currently feeling like Donkey drop a 😂 in the comments. Save this for the days when your eye starts twitching over RSVP cards, send it to your fiancé so they know they're not the only one wondering how the guest list somehow became this complicated.
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