Married By Mike

Married By Mike Personally said "I do" in 2017 & have been helping couples say it ever since! Hey I’m Mike! As for me, I’m just ordinary Mike! That something is marriage!

Some are NBA legends, some are the king of pop, another one was a ruthless boxer, and I believe one was even known as Magic! But just like those Mikes, I’m overly passionate about something. If you are reading this, I need to start with a huge congratulations!! You are about to embark on one of the greatest blessings God has for you. Doing life as a team is the absolute best! The God of the Bible

says so himself in Genesis when he says that two become one, which is nowadays known as a the "power couple". I would be overjoyed to join you two, encourage you two, and create for you two a custom wedding ceremony that is unforgettable! I’ve been doing this for over 5 years now and have had so much fun. Let’s get you Married by Mike!

The bride will always get the most tears of joy.But a close second is the ring bearer🐻💍
08/08/2025

The bride will always get the most tears of joy.

But a close second is the ring bearer🐻💍

Marriage is a beautiful covenant! Which is why it’s so important to renew vows.🫶🏼This is exactly what Phil and Bisi did ...
08/04/2025

Marriage is a beautiful covenant! Which is why it’s so important to renew vows.🫶🏼

This is exactly what Phil and Bisi did this weekend with . It was heartfelt. The vows they shared with each other were rooted in unconditional love!

And I have to mention, the weather was perfect at Ping Tom Park in Chinatown!

Grateful to be a small part of their special day!

He wept, and so did I. Nothing has made more grown men cry.This is why i can’t stop talking about marriage. 🫶🏼If it’s po...
07/31/2025

He wept, and so did I.
Nothing has made more grown men cry.

This is why i can’t stop talking about marriage. 🫶🏼

If it’s powerful enough to make armies of men cry, then it must be sacred.

I hope the beauty of our spouses move us to tears more than once!

Marriage is a gift. 🫶🏼

When 2️⃣ become 1️⃣

A beautiful couple is renewing their vows this weekend. I’m honored to be a part of it!

Married By Mike will look like this 🥹

I’ve cried more than most men 😂

How about you? Did you cry on your wedding day?

30+ wedding ceremonies in 2 years. Wedding ceremonies needed to change. So I started changing them. ⛪️Pastors didn’t see...
07/21/2025

30+ wedding ceremonies in 2 years.
Wedding ceremonies needed to change.
So I started changing them.

⛪️Pastors didn’t seem to be doing it right.

🙏🏻Priests didn’t seem to be doing it right.

👴Weird uncle John wasn’t doing it right.

🤵‍♂️Wedding officiants weren’t doing it right.

Such a shame.

The greatest love story ever told starts with a wedding. And ends with a wedding.

We have to get this right!

Because every couple as a unique love story that is so rich:
-Romance
-Hardships
-Perseverance
-Forgiveness
-Faith
-Adventure

But we somehow have decided to templatize a wedding ceremony to some generic 1 size fits all. (Maybe with small tweaks)

Or just rush to the reception because ceremonies have become so boring 🥱

This is why I started Married By Mike .

I sit down with every couple in person before their wedding day and have them tell me their story.

Then I write! Usually my forearm feels like it’s going to fall off by the end.

Because every love story is so rich! So much detail.

It never gets old doing what you see in these photos.

These stories of 2️⃣ becoming 1️⃣.

It has been such an honor sharing so many love stories!

Can’t wait to tell a few more 🫶🏼

Rob and Katie have such a fun love story! Tomorrow is their special wedding day where we get to tell it in front of all ...
04/25/2025

Rob and Katie have such a fun love story!

Tomorrow is their special wedding day where we get to tell it in front of all their family and friends as they become husband and wife!

It’s going to be a beautiful day.

Let’s get these two Married By Mike 😎

She has married 8 men. And loved them all! I am those 8 men. Today we celebrate 8 years of marriage.Every year I change....
04/20/2025

She has married 8 men.

And loved them all!

I am those 8 men.

Today we celebrate 8 years of marriage.

Every year I change.

New hopes
New dreams
New quirks (Lots of these!)
New challenges
New insecurities
New hobbies
New cares
New passions

And every year she loves me deeply.

Tim Keller explains this love perfectly…

“To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. It liberates us from pretense, humbles us out of our self-righteousness, and fortifies us for any difficulty life can throw at us.”

Fully known.

Truly loved.

This experience has the power to change lives.

It changed mine!

She is the “why” behind Married By Mike.

Anyone else out there fully known and truly loved?!🫶🏼

I had a blast meeting so many amazing couples at wedding expo last weekend!Because of the event …this weekend I’ll be s...
03/05/2025

I had a blast meeting so many amazing couples at wedding expo last weekend!

Because of the event …this weekend I’ll be speaking with a lovely couple about getting married by Mike at Eagle Brook!
Can’t wait to hear more about their love story!

The wedding is going to be beautiful .🫶🏼

These 2 met in college 10 years ago. They have a beautiful love story!I can’t wait to tell it this spring when they get ...
02/24/2025

These 2 met in college 10 years ago. They have a beautiful love story!

I can’t wait to tell it this spring when they get married by Mike!🫶🏼

I am Married By Mike.She is married to Mike. Since there is love in the air tonight.What kind of wedding officiant and l...
02/15/2025

I am Married By Mike.

She is married to Mike.

Since there is love in the air tonight.

What kind of wedding officiant and lover of marriage would I be without telling you about her😏

My lovely wife!

Macayla Lenzi, PTA -
Loves the Lord.
Loves marriage.
Loves motherhood.
Loves piano.
Loves pasta.
Loves books.
Loves life.

And thankfully- loves Mike!

I came alive when I met her.

And I have fallen in love with marriage because of her.

2️⃣became1️⃣ —> M&M 🫶🏼

I married a marine this weekend.We can learn from him. Just like the military, marriage is service.Not the “I will cook ...
01/06/2025

I married a marine this weekend.

We can learn from him.

Just like the military, marriage is service.

Not the “I will cook dinner tonight” service.

The laying your life down for another type service!

Like this:

🫡 Forgive even when it is not deserved.
🫡Confess even when it hurts.
🫡 Lead with grace even when emotional.

This is hard.

But you can do it!

Today how can you lay your life down for your husband or wife?

Wait to get married!!You are too young. Make sure you check all these boxes first:✅financially stable ✅have dated at lea...
12/09/2024

Wait to get married!!

You are too young.

Make sure you check all these boxes first:
✅financially stable
✅have dated at least 3 people
✅kept an animal alive for at least 1 year
✅Put the toilet seat down 50% of the time after use. (For men)
✅know how to cook
✅have traveled to least 10+ countries

…None of us would be married.

Are you thinking about getting married?

Check these boxes and you’ll be great:
✅Spirtual alignment
✅know how to genuinely say sorry
✅know how to forgive

Now quit wasting time with worldly standards and go get married! Doing life as a team is the absolut best.

Meet Married By Mike’s better half! Macayla Lenzi ❤️

-Thanks for loving God
-For being quick to say sorry
-And for forgiving me for always leaving the toilet seat up 🚽

Anyone else thankful for marriage this season??

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