04/30/2022
It’s almost been a year since my precious sister passed away. This past year dealing with her loss has been incredibly Difficult. As the anniversary of her death approaches there’s a dread and also looking forward to that date. It’s almost as if after we pass that date things will be OK-ish. I know grief has no expiration date. There are stages in grief that we need to work through and not neglect. I found that grief has been a great tenderizer for my soul. I’m very familiar with close family passing away. None has hit me as hard as losing my sister. For years I’ve worked on living intentionally, letting people know I appreciate them, listen being kind. When the cancer progresses, I had the privilege of moving in with Kathy to help take care of her. We had many conversations about what is important. (And what’s not)
It’s all about loving God and loving people. So, as I move past the year mark of my sweet sister leaving us, I’m determined now more than ever to live even more intentionally. I’ll continue to ride the waves of grief, and rest knowledge that I’ll see my sister again in Heaven. For those of you who have lost loved ones, I’m so profoundly sorry for your loss. Don’t try to work it through by yourself. Surround yourself with friends who will love and support you. Thank you to all of my peeps who have loved me and my family so well during this time. We will get through this together! 💕.
