07/30/2025
Dear Sam,I’m writing to you not just as a friend, but as someone I truly trust. I need your ear and your honesty right now because I’m dealing with something that feels surreal.Just a couple of weeks ago, I got married. It was supposed to be the beginning of a beautiful new chapter with my husband—the man I’ve been with for three years. But a storm I never saw coming just hit me.A woman reached out claiming to have been in a relationship with my husband for the past two years. She says they’ve known each other for six, and to make things even worse, she sent me videos and pictures of them together. The night before our wedding, she says they were at the Beyoncé concert. The next morning, he told her he was helping a friend move out. She claims she found out about the wedding only through Facebook.I’m caught between disbelief and heartbreak. Part of me wants to brush her off as someone trying to sabotage what we’ve built, maybe someone bitter or delusional. But the evidence she sent isn't easy to ignore. It’s haunting me.I don’t know what to do. Should I confront him and risk ripping apart the life we just started? Or is it possible that this woman is fabricating all of this just to create chaos?I feel lost, Sam. Please tell me what you think. I need clarity, and maybe you can help me see what I’m too afraid to look at.
