12/14/2025
Very sad day in Paducah
I debated all morning whether to make this post.
Today, Paducah is mourning a senseless act of violence. It brought back memories I rarely speak about. My sister was a victim of domestic violence that ended in a murder-suicide. She was only 29. I know what it feels like to get that phone call. I know the long, silent drive that follows. That pain never leaves you.
I’m sharing this for Stephanie, for her children, for my sister, and for every victim of domestic violence.
I won’t go into details about what happened here in Paducah. What matters is this:
Two children woke up this morning without their mother — especially during the holidays.
No matter the situation, taking another life is a cowardly act.
As a community, we are angry. Many are blaming the police. Many times, police officers respond, document, separate, and do what they legally can — but their hands are often tied by the laws they are required to follow. When arrests can’t be made or stronger action isn’t taken, it’s not always because officers don’t care. It’s because the law limits what they are allowed to do.
Instead of placing all the blame on police, we should also be asking tougher questions of the lawmakers who write and pass these laws. They decide what authority exists, what protections victims receive, and what consequences abusers face.
If we truly want change, we need stronger laws, better protections for victims, and accountability at every level. Domestic violence isn’t a police problem alone — it’s a legal, political, and community issue.
Victims deserve safety. Survivors deserve support. And our laws should reflect that.
Paducah, we need to stand together. We cannot replace a mother’s love, but we can stand up, speak up, and support the children and families left behind.
Please share this post. Any money made from this post will go directly to Stephanie’s family to help support her children.
If you have contact with Stephanie’s family, please message me privately. I want to do something meaningful for the kids, and I hope you’ll join me.
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available:
National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7): 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
Text START to 88788
Website: thehotline.org
Kentucky Domestic Violence Association: kdva.org
Local emergency: Call 911 if you are in immediate danger
Your share could help someone feel less alone.
Your voice could save a life.
Let’s stand up for Stephanie and for every victim of domestic violence.
