09/29/2026
Wedding planning sounds glamorous.
The reality? 😂
It’s mostly me, in my pajamas, at my computer at 10:30 PM, surrounded by spreadsheets, timelines, floor plans, vendor emails and approximately 47 tabs… wishing I was at Disneyland. 🫠🏰
There are definitely glamorous moments. Beautiful venues. Gorgeous tablescapes. Happy couples. The BIG moments that make all the late nights worth it.
But the majority of this job? It’s behind the scenes. It’s problem-solving, organizing, double-checking, emailing, measuring, revising and making approximately 900 tiny decisions so my couples don’t have to.
And I genuinely LOVE that part. There’s something pretty special about getting to take all the moving pieces and turn them into a day that feels effortless for someone else.
But glamorous?
Not usually. 😂
Also, completely unrelated but I will let my last Covid FISHIE live in peace and solitude. So he gets all the glamour. Stay tuned for the tank reset once he carries on to the next.
Wedding planner by day. Pajama-clad spreadsheet warrior by night.
Would I trade it? Absolutely not. ❤️