Your Custom Ceremony

Your Custom Ceremony My name is Chris Dickens and I am a pastor and award-winning wedding officiant. I do not have pre-written or canned ceremonies.

Award-winning wedding officiant creating unique ceremonies that capture your love story, wow your guests, and start the party. | 200+ 5⭐ reviews. | Serving Southern California. I create custom, one of a kind wedding ceremonies for you and your future spouse. Everything I do is uniquely tailored to your desires and needs. My objective is to get to know you as individuals and as a couple, so that I

can deliver the ceremony that you have always dreamed of. My personal commitment is to be creative and supportive enough to help you in realizing the vision that you have for your wedding day. Beach weddings, themed weddings, traditional or contemporary, no request is too big or too small. Contact me today to get started planning your dream wedding ceremony.

Congratulations to Joya and Le’Mar, just married on Sunday on the beautiful Icon yacht in Newport Harbor. You’re going t...
08/11/2026

Congratulations to Joya and Le’Mar, just married on Sunday on the beautiful Icon yacht in Newport Harbor.

You’re going to want to scroll through these amazing photos by Long Beach Photographer because the only thing more beautiful than the pictures, are the smiles and the joy on the bride and groom’s faces.

Everyone should be this happy on their wedding day!

This one was a lot of fun with lots of laughs and a great story. The guests were thrilled and excited and it was a beautiful day on the water.

Joya and Le’Mar, thank you for letting me be part of your wedding celebration.

_________________________
Looking for a wedding ceremony that feels as unique as your love story? You’ll need the right officiant.

I create unique ceremonies that capture your love, captivate your guests, and get the party started.

Check availability and schedule your free consultation at www.YourCustomCeremony.NET

I came across these amazing photos of Alexis and Kyle’s February wedding at the Jonathan Club in Los Angeles. These pict...
07/26/2026

I came across these amazing photos of Alexis and Kyle’s February wedding at the Jonathan Club in Los Angeles.

These pictures by California Wedding Photographer are beautiful and so was their story. There were laughs, tears, and their family and friends were excited and ready for every second!

As I’m updating my website I’m coming across more and more photos and I will try to share more.

_________________________
Looking for a wedding that feels as unique as your love story?

I create unique ceremonies that capture your love, captivate your guests, and get the party started.

Check availability and schedule your free consultation at www.YourCustomCeremony.NET

Congratulations to Mahogany and Justin, just married at the beautiful SmogShoppe venue in Los Angeles.This one was a lot...
07/13/2026

Congratulations to Mahogany and Justin, just married at the beautiful SmogShoppe venue in Los Angeles.

This one was a lot of fun with a touching story, a lot of humor, and even karaoke in the reception! These two are a lot of fun and I can’t wait to see the pictures from Lauren | California Wedding Photographer!

Thank you Justin and Mahogany for letting me be part of your big day.

_________________________
Looking for a wedding that feels as unique as your love story?

I create unique ceremonies that capture your love, captivate your guests, and get the party started.

Check availability and schedule your free consultation at www.YourCustomCeremony.NET

Congratulations to Jasmine and Zackary, just married (Friday) at the gorgeous Old Orange County Courthouse in Santa Ana....
06/22/2026

Congratulations to Jasmine and Zackary, just married (Friday) at the gorgeous Old Orange County Courthouse in Santa Ana.

These two have an amazing story, and I was blessed to help tell it with handfasting, beautiful custom vows, and jumping the broom. Their families and friends were excited to share this special day, and you could definitely feel the love.

_________________________
I create unique ceremonies that capture your love, captivate your guests, and get the party started. Check availability and schedule your free consultation at www.YourCustomCeremony.NET

This historic courtroom was a gorgeous backdrop for their ceremony. I didn’t even know this venue existed, but it’s up on the third floor and it looks awesome.

Shout out to an amazing couple, a heartwarming story, and an awesome room.

02/09/2026

Most ceremony problems aren’t accidents.
They’re preventable.

There’s one question couples almost never ask their officiant.

And it would stop 90% of interruptions before they ever happen.

This is why experience matters.

Save this if you’re planning a ceremony.



02/07/2026

When someone interrupts or chimes in during a ceremony, calling them out almost always makes it worse.

I don’t shut people down.
I use a soft interrupt.

It acknowledges them without embarrassment and gently brings the focus back to the couple.

Most of the time, that’s all it takes.

Tomorrow I’ll share the one question couples don’t usually ask their officiant that could prevent this entirely.



02/05/2026

Parents usually aren’t trying to cause problems during a ceremony.

They care deeply and think they’re protecting the day.

The key is giving them a role without handing over control.

This is part 3 of my Difficult Families & Difficult Guests series.

Next: what I do when someone actually interrupts the ceremony.



02/03/2026

Most family issues during wedding ceremonies aren’t about bad intentions.

Weddings bring up history, emotions, and uncertainty about where people fit.
That’s why things sometimes show up during the ceremony itself.

This is part 2 of my series on difficult families and difficult guests.

Next: what I do when parents want to take control of the ceremony.



02/02/2026

Most ceremony stress has nothing to do with vows.
It’s about people.

And managing people shouldn’t be your job on your wedding day.

Over the next few videos, I’ll show you how I make sure it never becomes your problem.



01/27/2026

Vow writing pressure is real.

So for engagement season, I’m giving away my vow guide “How to Write Amazing Vows in Ten Minutes or Less” free until Valentine’s Day.

This is the guide I send couples before they write their vows.

DM me VOWS and I’ll send it to you.

Address

2160 Barranca Parkway #1039
Irvine, CA
92606

Alerts

Be the first to know and let us send you an email when Your Custom Ceremony posts news and promotions. Your email address will not be used for any other purpose, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Contact The Business

Send a message to Your Custom Ceremony:

Shortcuts

Share