11/25/2025
Yesterday, a friend asked if I’d attend a Pua Crew Collective meeting in her place. After some confusion about where to meet, I finally sat down to talk story with the organizer.
She was looking for lei makers to help with fabric and fresh flower lei workshops. I shared that I’ve been making lei for 12 years and dancing hula for 25. As it turns out, she also needs lei makers for local hula shows. “You’re the perfect fit,” she said.
Then she asked what made me return home after so many years in the Bay Area.
I told her I’m originally from California—San Diego and the Bay—not from here.
She smiled and said, “That doesn’t matter. You are home.”
Sometimes home isn’t where you’re from.
It’s where you’re welcomed.
Where your gifts are seen.
Where someone looks at you and says, you belong here.
Happy Thanksgiving.
I hope you all find your way home—wherever that may be.
Me ke aloha,
Arleen