10/15/2025
💭 Planner’s Perspective:
I see people invest so much into weddings, birthdays, showers, and celebrations — all to entertain guests who haven’t called, checked in, or shown up in years. And every time… it backfires.
When you’re building a guest list for any special occasion, ask yourself:
👉 Do they sit at your table for holidays?
👉 Do they check on you — and do you check on them?
If the answer is no, they don’t belong on the list.
Every invitation/event is an investment — in time, money, and emotion.
If someone hasn’t invested in you throughout the years, don’t pour your resources into entertaining them.
Whether it’s $10, $1,000, $10,000, or $100,000…
It never turns out well. Never.
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Photo Cred from a recent styled shoot:
📸: Parker Photography
🏢:
🌹: Rachel Deneroy Designs
🍕: Mellow Mushroom
🤎: Olivia Luna
🤎: butcher