12/23/2024
I originally published the blog post included in March of 2023, as Julie, Rhon, Susy, and I were getting ready for our very first Charm City Romanticon (CCR). ** some information in the blog post has been updated to reflect the current timeline.
This past weekend (Dec 2024) I promoted to 4th degree black belt at WKD K4G. People often ask me why I train. Why a woman nearing 40 stepped on the mat as a white belt nearly 14 years ago and decided to try a karate class. Why I continue to train and teach in my 50s.
It's actually one of the questions Sensei Monique Washington Jones asks every student at every test. And my answer has definitely changed over the years.
On Saturday, in addition to earning my 4th degree black belt, I watched 21 other young women ranging in age from 7 to 15 years old, and everything from white belts to a brand new black belt, advance in rank. They are my why.
Because representation matters. Because female martial artists are significantly outnumbered by their male counterparts. Because I am dedicated to being on the mat with them as long as I am physically able. To help & guide them along their journey. To provide them with the tools and encouragement to keep going.
This journey has not been easy. It's not always fun. It's not always convenient. But it's always worth it. They are worth it.
I am worth it.
And as we prepare for a new year, another CCR, and even more promotions to 4th degree (3 of our security squad will be promoting to join me at the rank within the next 6 months), I wanted to highlight this amazing karate school, the women who are part of it, and how it is woven through every element of my life—including my bookish life.
Read more about it here: www.brayzensblog.com/blog-3/heres-to-badss-women-1
As a side note: We are offering a practical self defense workshop Sunday, April 6, 2025 taught by members of our all-female security squad. You can find details for that in the event Facebook group: Charm City Romanticon Attendees