
06/19/2025
I’ve known Nicole almost as long as I’ve known how to change my camera settings.
It’s been almost 15 years since we met on the set of. photo shoot where I was the humble assistant. We got along swimmingly and then life took us in our own unique directions. That was it, I thought. But a decade later, we reconnected.
When Serena, my associate, needed support for a few weddings around her due date with her first daughter, I was part of the backup plan. (Photographer parents, you know the drill.)
So when Kira was born and needed someone to step in just two days later, I was her gal! That was the call that call brought Nicole back into my life.
There’s something so special about seeing someone you knew in a completely different chapter of life finding joy and safety in love. Nicole was all of that on her wedding day. So happy, calm, and full of love with Brian by her side.
I’ve always known Nicole to be someone who feels life deeply. She cares hard. She loves harder. Her wedding day was full of those honest emotions. She started the day visiting her father’s grave to honor his memory. She got married at Washington Memorial Chapel, the same historic space where she worked at the time. Every element of the day was connected and intentional.
And Brian. Watching him care for Nicole, show up for her, love her so genuinely, reminded me how incredible it is when someone finds their true equal.
That day didn’t just reconnect us. It sparked something again. Since then, we’ve played together in artistic cosplay shoots. I’ve captured her professional headshots. We exchange holiday cards each year, although her personal newsletter is always tops! And I still owe her a lunch date one of these Fridays! (See, Nicole, I haven’t forgotten!)
When I say that photography is about relationships for me, THIS is what I’m talking about. Of course, I love the art of it, but the people are the part that sticks with me. That fills my life. That matters most.
Happy anniversary, Nicole and Brian. I’ll always be glad that you came back into my life when you did