10/06/2025
I have been quite open around my recent struggles with UNSUPERVISED, it’s a hard relationship between myself and the book lately. Mainly the “making and funding” part of it has triggered every insecurity, fear and weakness I have. I just keep trying to focus on the WHY and believing that in the end sacrificing my health, my security and time with my family will be absolutely worth it.
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I received a message from my publicist last Thursday that the first big feature picked up was going to be in The Guardian. This is the 7th largest media outlet in the world, 86 million unique digital readers each month. It is the 2nd largest publication in the UK. While I should’ve initially been elated, my fear response was triggered and I was just overwhelmingly worried that I needed to be prepared for the possibility of criticism.
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I am happy to share that the majority of my own words and thoughts were used and my overall message is at the heart of this feature. While I would’ve preferred a more diverse selection of photos, more representational of the intentional balance in the book, I am genuinely pleased.
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I keep saying to my publisher, “This is a really disorienting, scary time in the world right now. It’s either absolutely the WORST time to release a book OR it’s a necessity to release it now.”
The most clear lesson I’ve learned after photographing families for 15 years is this, “All any human wants, fundamentally, is to love, be loved and have a safe place to do so.”
That’s it. That’s what we all want, from the time we are born until our last breath. It’s at the epicenter of why make friends, why we raise children, why we celebrate holidays and birthdays. It’s why we have non-profits and Disney and religion and culture. (Cont in comments)
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