10/27/2023
The Wedding Planner got married! 💍 💘
They say the best experience is hands on experience and I got it now y'all!!! Lol
I've been planning/ coordinating weddings for almost 15 years, yet now I consider myself an expert. Here's 3 key tips I'd share with my future brides.
1. Tradition is out: You do not have to do x,y,z just because that's what you've seen or heard of from previous weddings. Do what you feel suits you and your spouse, not everyone else. I'm not huge on flowers, I honestly didn't want any flowers incorporated in my wedding at all, not even boutinerres for the men. Bouquets for the ladies... okay of course, however I considered even having them walk out holding a candle instead. Personal choice over tradition, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. It's your day!
2. Open Bar/Cash Bar: I highly believe in providing your guests with complimentary beverages. But I also believe in making sure your guests aren't so intoxicated, they ruin the occasion. If you know your guests and there's a slight possibility for someone to get wasted, be wise. We offered complimentary beer and wine at our reception, the hard liquor... you're on your own. The atmosphere I wanted at my reception was for everyone to be mellow, yet have a great time. No Drunks Allowed lol (although there's some that'll still take it there LOL)
3. Guests/ Vendors/ Bridal Participants: Make sure you're very intentional with your guest list, vendor list, and selection of bridal party. The goal here is to ensure you have a peaceful and smoothly operating day. I've never knew the importance of this until planning my own wedding. You want to feel the love from every aspect and you want others involved to feel that same peace and love while celebrating this day with you. Although you can't control the bad seeds in the bunch, don't just invite or utilize individuals out of feeling obligated. Choose wisely on every level to avoid chaos. Some individuals may be upset they weren't chosen, however your peace of mind is way more important.