The House on Barber Mill

07/28/2023

One of the Vendors we love- so talented!!

06/17/2023

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☀️Summer is ☀️almost here!
I always think it’s summer way before we hit June 21st. But this year NC really has delivered a long wonderful Spring! .
🔥Temps are finally here to stay probably. Thank goodness we have tons of shade and cooler temps in the venue!
The best of both worlds- indoor & outdoor spaces to accommodate whatever weather is coming at us!
Tag a friend that’s getting engaged soon!
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06/02/2023

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Ok we’re biased …. But isn’t this the best spot to hang your dress!?
Looking forward to more stunning dress pics in this spot!
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05/25/2023

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🌳 Decided Maggie needed her own post 🌳
You can tell by the chairs on the right how big she is😮
Her 80’ canopy matches the NC State record and of course she smells super amazing in bloom right now 💚

50% of our couples are choosing to say “I Do” under her shade

05/13/2023

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👋Hey everyone!
Thought we’d say Hi since we’ve been TOLD that we should do that 🙃.
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💪This is Haley - the grit & passion keeping this new venture going. She wouldn’t say that - but everyone else would!

Here’s a bit about Haley Lenderman

🐾Dog lover and dog mama to her rescue boxer-pit, Lila
📓Planner by nature & education
👩‍🍳A major Foodie & Professional Cook
🎸Shares her TS love with her little Sis Peyton
🥎 Softball was her first boyfriend from 5 - 22 yrs old and still dating casually.
🎈Serial party planner & True Crime podcastee
😱 Could get paid serious $ for her ( authentically scared) scream and hates Halloween)
🤟Other loves: weather forecasting, reading, interior design, ruining toes of tennis shoes, country music

On the serious side - Haley is a deeply loyal friend to the lucky ones, very committed to her family, and takes wild joy from seeing others enjoy themselves around her, making her an extraordinary host.
Bottom line ?
You’re in good hands here at THOBM!
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05/06/2023

See you all from 2-5!!
Bring your plants & friends!

04/29/2023

‼️TREND ALERT ‼️
We’ve got our “trendy” couples and our
“no-way-I’ll -never-follow the-trend” couples. 😊
Which are you? Drop a Yay or a Nay in the comments!
Well here’s the trend regardless!
Light wood tables or nude/tan linens !
The first pic of course is of our custom wood tables- designed 1-1/2 years ago.
We’ve been suddenly seeing this pop up a lot!
We’ll call it a coincidence…😎
But we’ll be there for you to never let our space get “old”. Our design background has your back.
Our custom built tables have modern white metal legs which lean the space to a sweet boutique vibe, with low-key vintage & modern styling together.
The result? A neutral backdrop with huge personality that allows you to make yourself at home with whatever style or theme you’re looking for 💙

The drop- leaves on our tables can be many sizes (dining, console, display) and designed to not need a linen. 6’ long to seat 6 or 8, they fit perfectly in our space.
The other trend? Lining them up in a straight row. Love it! Centerpieces are so lovely all the way down the tables.

Did you read all the way to here!? Then you get it- tables are important!
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04/22/2023

UPDATE DUE TO INCLEMENT WEATHER!!

⚡️RESCHEDULED⚡️ Due to the forecasted severe weather, our Grand Opening Garden Party + Plant Swap is postponed until Saturday, May 6 from 2-5pm

PLEASE SHARE this post and personally reach out to your circle of friends who are looking forward to attending with you!
💞🌿 We appreciate your understanding & ongoing support!

We look forward to enjoying a lovely afternoon garden soirée with you May 6! 🌷🤍

The House on Barber Mill
Dylan's Wedding & Event Planning
Buttermilk Boutique
bluehourphotobooths
Hazel’s Roots.
Liz Hamling
Calla Captivations
Okeedoe

RH Artistry
Calla Captivations
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Enchanted On Main

04/22/2023

⚡️⚡️RESCHEDULE⚡️⚡️

Severe weather today will keep us from our garden party :-(
Come see us on May 6th -same time 2 to 5 PM !!
PLEASE SHARE 💚

04/18/2023

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🌿Our new friend Adi - a local Clayton florist & farm is celebrating her Grand Opening with us!
She’s hosting a Free Community Event -
Garden Party & Plant Swap with many local vendors!
Congrats Adi on your success we can’t wait for Saturday!!
Come on out everyone- we’d love to meet you!

04/18/2023

One of our friends, chiropractor for our entire family, and a bride in December with us!

Practicing Orthospinology and Activator Methods for the people of Garner, NC and surrounding areas

04/14/2023

WINNER Laurie Ann ! Over on instagram - liked, tagged a friend & guessed roof!

Thanks all for playing that was fun!

⭐️Give away!⭐️
We have a major renovation happening next week- but we haven’t told very many people.
We’ve been sharing all the renos , additions & pretty things to come for the last year with all of you -especially our brides!
But this one? We’re pretty excited but not sure you’ll care much ? ☺️
Can you guess??

☕️We have a 50.00
Starbucks card for the first person who likes this post, tags a friend, and is the first to guess correctly!
Hint: you can see it in this pic. Ok that’s 2 hints.
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04/06/2023

You're Invited!! ROOTED GOODS GARDEN PARTY + PLANT SWAP GRAND OPENING
Saturday, April 22 at The House on Barber Mill from 2-5pm 🌸🪴 FREE Community Event!

🌿 Dylan's Unique Gifts & Weddings
🌿 Buttermilk Boutique
🌿 Hazel’s Roots.
🌿 Okeedoe Fiber Art
🌿 Liz Hamling Real Estate Agent
🌿 endlessjewelry.ash
🌿 Paper&Clay Ceramics
🌿 Enchanted On Main
🌿 RH Artistry
🌿 Calla Captivations Clay Jewelry

Celebrate Earth Day with your local community of fellow plant and flower lovers! 🌎🌸🌱 Shopping with local food, craft and artisan vendors AND Plant Swap!

Plant Swaps are a great way to share your abundance of plants, rooted cuttings, bulbs or seeds AND grow your collection! 🌿🪴🌱

— Bring all the plants, but leave the pups. No pets are allowed on the property —

We are excited to celebrate with YOU! 🤍🌸

04/03/2023

✨ A Stress Free "I Do" ✨

✨ Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be!✨

Introducing our all-inclusive package, designed to make your special day stress-free and unforgettable. From catering and décor to photography and full pl, we've got everything covered so you can focus on enjoying the moment.

Join us for our open house on 4/16 from 12-3pm for live music, light bites, and giveaways valued up to $1,000!

🌟 Link in bio for free tickets, explore the package, and see giveaway details🌟
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04/03/2023

✨ A Stress Free "I Do" ✨

✨ Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, but it doesn't have to be!✨

Introducing our all-inclusive package, designed to make your special day stress-free and unforgettable. From catering and décor, to photography and full planning, we've got everything covered so you can focus on enjoying the moment.

Join us for our open house on 4/16 from 12-3pm for live music, light bites, and giveaways valued up to $1,000!

🌟 Link in bio for free tickets, explore the package, and see giveaway details🌟
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03/29/2023

You're Invited!!
ROOTED GOODS GARDEN PARTY + PLANT SWAP Grand Opening! 🌸 Saturday, April 22 at The House on Barber Mill from 2-5pm

Choice of one FREE beer or wine (for guests 21+, While quantities last) or one local Kombucha PLUS shopping with local food, craft and artisan vendors AND Plant Swap!

Bring all the plants, but leave the pups. No pets are allowed on the property.

🌿 Dylan's Unique Gifts & Weddings
🌿 Buttermilk Boutique
🌿 Hazel’s Roots.
🌿 Okeedoe Fiber Art
🌿 Liz Hamling Realtor
🌿 endlessjewelry.ash
🌿 Paper&Clay Ceramics
🌿 Enchanted On Main
🌿 RH Artistry
+ MORE!

Plant Swaps are a great way to share your abundance of plants, rooted cuttings, bulbs or seeds AND grow your collection!

Plant Swap details:
-You bring healthy, pest-free plants, rooted cuttings, bulbs or seeds to trade

-Plants should be easy to transport
(In pots, cups, containers,
baggie with a wet paper towel)

-Bring your own boxes, totes, or crates to transport plants

The more plants, rooted cuttings, bulbs & seeds you bring- the more you get to take! Everyone will have the opportunity to take home a new plant, cutting, bulbs or seeds

Celebrate Earth Day with your local community of fellow plant and flower lovers 🌎🌸🌱

03/28/2023

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💚Do you know why Green is still trending for a & ??
Because it is so stunning against the NC blue sky for an outdoor event 💙
What colors are you dreaming about?
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03/26/2023

🥂A Spring Launch Party =
Bubbly, Hors-d’oeuvres & Music on the porch and under Maggie!

🎉Help us celebrate the roll-out of our All-Inclusive Package with all the Vendors who are part of the Package with:
Multiple Give-away Drawings during the Party including -
⭐️$ 1,000.00 off 2024 Cardinal Events Wedding Planning Package
⭐️Free Bridal Photography Sessions with preferred photographers at event
⭐️50% off a rehearsal booking at The House On Barber Mill
How to enter:
-Register free through the link in bio.
-Attend the event ( make sure you sign in!)
💙 Share this with a friend !
See you there!
Photcreds In order

03/21/2023

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🕯Candlelight or Cafe lights 💡
under Maggie??
Drop a 🕯 for a romantic vibe
or a💡if you prefer bright & fun!

03/17/2023

🎶 We Get You 🎶
Big budget or Small…
It’s still a budget.
Wouldn’t it be amazing to know if a venue could work for you before you inquired or toured?
We agree- and built this business around your needs, not ours.
So our website might be a little refreshing for you!
Spend some time on our website and you’ll start to see that THOBM has one of the most extensive inclusion lists in the Triangle.
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Let us know what you think!
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03/12/2023

🙌 Here it is!
Things are happening fast around here lately!
We’re officially rolling out our All-Inclusive Package with the help of Victoria who did most of the heavy- lifting on this. Thank you Victoria!
You’re going to love the incredible vendor line-up that’s already been curated for you! You can step right in to this dream-team that will provide . the care you’ve been wanting.
Just go to the link in our bio or hers to view the package inclusions and list of vendors. Or you can email us at [email protected]. .
Victoria will lead the way to the wedding you’ve been hoping for - since she is going to do all the heavy - lifting for you too! You’re going to love her step-by-step guidance from now until your wedding day.
Of course you’ll still have the freedom to enjoy the venue rental with it’s long list of inclusions as part of this new package - or on its own as originally designed.
Go check it out!
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03/01/2023

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Wrapping up with Day 16 !
(for now:)
We’ve been waiting for Sarah to come visit us again… impatiently!
Just check out her feed - seriously stunning !! Swipe for a few examples of her talent.
And Sarah & her family are as sweet as her work!

02/27/2023

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Signature Cocktails?
YES PLEASE!
And Jordan makes them as yummy as they look!
Jordan’s worked with us a few times and she’s a Class Act!Whether she’s serving inside or in her mobile bar - you and your guests will be well taken care of!.
Jordan we’re looking forward to seeing you so much this year!

02/25/2023

✨ Calling all newly engaged,
or soon to be engaged couples! ✨

Come meet our amazing team of vendors
enjoy food, drinks and live music
by Heads up Penny

💐 Spring Sip & See 💐
Sunday March 5th 1-4pm

Hosted by :
The House on Barber Mill
and Lighthouse Planning

Click on this post to register for free!

What part of Spring are
you most excited for?

Tell us below 🎕☀️

02/23/2023

02/22/2023

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🎨We have a love for Art & Architecture over here in the Lenderman family 🌇
And Kelsey made us so so happy !!
Kelsey is personable, fun, talented - and has mastered her craft where you’re in awe how easy she makes it look!
What an amazing keepsake from your wedding !.

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02/21/2023

What vibe are you looking for?
Are you a minimalist? Or do you like all the embellishments?
We’ve made sure you have all the options with plenty of backdrops for a classic portrait or all the moody vibe you could want too 😎
So many guests are describing THOBM as having a “vibe” - I think I’m getting it now . I couldn’t wait to post from your gallery!
If you’ve been here…do we have a vibe? Do you think I’ve used the word vibe enough times in this post!? 😳😂



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02/15/2023

This will be fun! Live music… yes please!

Join us for our Spring Sip & See at The House on Barber Mill! Enjoy refreshments, drinks, and live music as you meet an amazing group of wedding vendors! Register on eventbrite: http://springsipandsee.eventbrite.com

Venue:
Planner:
Catering:
Band:
Dessert Bar:
Bar:
Photo:
Wedding Dress:
Florist:
Specialty Rentals:
Audio Guestbook:
Photobooth:
DJ:
Video: .leaf.productions
Makeup:

02/15/2023

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Day 10 of Vendors We Love!
Corina from
serves up the prettiest and yummiest of charcuterie and does it with grace & ease-
at least it appears that way!.
Thank you Corina for the relationship were developing 💙
And keep those snacks coming! Your business name is seriously the best…like snacks are a commodity- right?

02/14/2023

Day 9!
⭐️Jessie Peloso ⭐️

is a new Preferred Vendor and we are ecstatic!
Jessie is THOBM’s OG photographer-
the first to beautifully capture the house after renovations and the first to do a (engagement) shoot on the property.
Her work is featured throughout our website and social media for a reason!

Thank you Jessie for your friendship & support as we began our new adventure. It meant more than you know!
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02/12/2023

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Day 8!
The next Vendor we love is Jenna with !
This girl… so great! Professional, talented, and attentive!! I’ve never seen someone follow their model around for the entire day to touch up their make up and hair. I mean yes- it was 90 degrees out- but still!
Jenna someone to have on your team!
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Maternity model

02/11/2023

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Day 7!
The next Vendor we love is Molly !
HOW.FUN.IS.THIS!?
🍹Signature cocktails from a BAR on WHEELS- yes please!
And run by the wonderful Molly-
A true class act. You’re in good hands as long as Brewmasters is there!

02/11/2023

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🌳A bench, Pecan tree, wildflower meadow…. What’s not to love?

This has become a favorite outdoor spot for photographers 📸
We CANNOT wait for that field to grow!!

02/09/2023

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Day 6 of Vendors we love!
Lydia .PlanningandDesign
is one of our new preferred Wedding Planner.
Swipe for why we love Lydia’s business. Quality management skills is what you need in this business and Lydia has them!
We’re so happy to be working together💙