05/17/2026
I have lived many lives, learned many lessons, and suffered many losses.
I’ve been green, gullible, greedy, deprived, smothered, abandoned, r***d, molested, bruised, and betrayed.
I’ve disrespected my body, my God, my morals, and my boundaries.
I share all of this because there was a time I was embarrassed of the past versions of me.
At 33, I’m realizing how deeply grateful I am for every version of myself that got me here.
Uneducated but resilient.
A victim, but still willing to hold myself accountable for my healing.
Dedicated to growth and endurance.
Willing to walk away from everything and start over with nothing.
She questioned everything and everyone until life slowly began to make sense… and I love her for that.
Because without her, there would be no EliVate.
No understanding of emotional stewardship.
No compassion for overwhelmed women carrying entire visions alone.
No ability to sit with founders in chaos and help them find clarity, structure, safety, and strategy again.
EliVate is not just about events.
It’s about helping resilient women build sustainable visions, healthier lives, and legacies their daughters can feel secure in.
And maybe that’s the real flex…
not pretending we were never broken, but building something beautiful anyway
