04/07/2026
So many times in life, Iāve felt like I missed the mark. Life became too busy and I forgot to register for a camp, or a sport, or photos, or even make dinner!
Iāve scrambled last min for birthday plans for kids and my husband, Iāve sent emails weeks late (or not at all! š« ). Failed to send out holiday cards, dye Easter eggā¦. The list can go on. I can, and readily will, list you all my failures. The things Iām distracted by and the house I fail to keep up to the standards of the common sense and decency. š
And I did it readily in my 20s and 30s - kept a small voice in my head that always quietly reminded me that Iām not doing all the things I should be doing and therefore, Iām a failure.
And here is the good things about my 40s: I still fail. What a psycho Iād be if I told you I didnāt fail anymore and I did all things well now!
The difference is perspective. Itās always been the difference, right?! With Easter this past weekend, I remembered the great example of perceptive. To the disciples the cross was the end - death - failure. To Christ it was the ultimate victory - life - the ultimate win.
And, so, Iām only telling you this to say with time and age, hopefully youāre able to gain the perspective- that youāre not a failure. That the things you neglect to do are not the total value of your worth.
You are not a soul measured in the weight of all the things you do right. You are a soul measured in the weight of someone elseās sacrifice. š¤
And there isnāt ever a bad time to book portrait session ;) youāre not late or early - youāll get there when you do, and it will be perfect.