10/14/2026
PHONES and old people. I am an old people. (65) What I have learned the hard way is that a simple announcement to turn off phones and put away MAY NOT WORK when there is a high number of elderly--my age and up!
This has happened a couple of times when there were a significant number of elderly folks in attendance--especially in their late 70's and 80's: even with a phone announcement--a phone started ringing during the ceremony! Very distracting!
I pledge to do something different when there are a lot of elderly like me--after this happened to me again last weekend. I won't simply give a phone announcement, because 1) many elderly don't hear that well and may miss the announcement or 2) they may assume their phone is off and forget it's not or 3) they don't really understand how to silence a phone.
I am going to say "If you are my age or older, please do me a favor and show a younger person your phone right now and let them make sure it is on silence. Or even better--put it in airplane mode." I really am going to do this!