05/10/2023
To Plus-One or Not to Plus-One?
10 May 2023
1. Congrats on your engagement!
After you've popped the champagne bottle and told all of your family and friends, it's time to start thinking about your guest list for the big day. One of the first questions you'll have to answer is whether or not to allow your guests to bring a +1.
There is no right or wrong answer to this question, but there are a few things you should consider before making your decision. In this blog post, we'll outline some of the pros and cons of allowing plus-ones at your wedding so that you can make the best decision for you and your fiancé.
2. Now that you've set a date, it's time to start thinking about your guest list.
When considering a plus-one for your wedding guest list, you should be mindful of guests’ relationships. If a person is married or in an established long-term relationship, offering a plus-one is expected. You may want to include the plus-one family members, such as the couple’s children, in the invitation as well.
But if you are inviting single guests, consider their level of familiarity with you. Is it someone you will likely stay friends with? Will they be likely to attend more functions in the future? Is it worth having them bring a guest to your wedding, or is it more important to keep the guest list to a minimum?
Think through all of the consequences of your decision and be sure to discuss the decision with your partner's close family and friends before you send out the invitations. They may bring insight into your choice or help explain why the decision needs to be made. Whatever option you choose, remember that ultimately you and your partner get the last say and should choose what is best for you.
3. You may be wondering if you should invite plus ones to your wedding.
The answer is ultimately up to you and your partner. You may find that having a handful of plus-ones is great for your wedding, as it allows your single friends to bring a date and have someone to dance with. However, it could also lead to a large guest list and a more expensive wedding.
Whatever you decide to do, consider some of the following things:
* Your budget – Plus-ones can add up financially.
* Your preference – Are there certain people you want to make sure you invite?
* Your number of guests – Be mindful of how much space you have and how accommodating the venue or catering company is to making changes.
If you do decide to invite some guests with plus-ones, then you should make sure they are aware of the details before they receive their invitations. Guests need to know whether their plus-ones need to be in the wedding party, if they will require a plus-one invitation, or gift. All of this information should be clearly communicated and thoroughly discussed with each guest.
4. Here are a few things to consider when making your decision.
Once you have decided whether or not to include plus-ones in your wedding, here are a few other things to keep in mind when it comes to planning:
* Location – Consider the size of the venue and the parking availability for plus-ones.
* Venue – Contact the venue to ensure enough seating for plus-ones.
* Catering – Determine ahead of time if plus-ones require a separate meal or if they can share one meal with another guest.
* Details – If you are issuing plus-ones, make sure all details are included such as the name, address, RSVP information, and any other pertinent information.
* RSVP – Establish a specific RSVP deadline with plus-ones so that you have a better idea of how many people to expect.
Ultimately, it's up to you and your partner to decide whether plus-ones are the right choice for your wedding. Weigh all the factors and consider the various scenarios so that you can plan accordingly.
5. Ultimately, it's up to you and your fiancé to decide whether or not to invite plus ones to your wedding.
Ultimately, it's up to you and your fiancé to decide whether or not to invite plus-ones to your wedding. This can be a difficult decision, so make sure you think through the process thoroughly. There are pros and cons to inviting plus-ones and it's important to consider if it's worth it to you in the long-term.
Plus-ones can bring an extra element of fun and excitement to your wedding as they provide an opportunity to get to know your guests' plus-ones better. On the flip side, it can add stress to your wedding planning and budget, as you may need to make accommodations for plus-ones, including an extra meal and additional seating. You will also need to factor in the time and effort it will take to track the RSVPs.
If you do decide to include plus-ones, consider setting expectations ahead of time. For example, will you allow children to bring a plus-one? Will you have a cut-off date for when RSVPs must be received? By setting this upfront, you can avoid any surprises closer to the date.
At the end of the day, it is your special day and the choice is ultimately yours. Weigh all the factors, consider the various scenarios, and make the best decision for your big day.
6. Thanks for reading!
We hope you have found this article useful in assisting you in making your decision as to whether or not to invite plus-ones to your wedding. Whatever you choose, make sure it works for you as it is your day and your choice. We wish you the very best of luck in your wedding planning!
