Erielle Gray Creative

08/09/2025

if it isn’t a day completely filled with joy + love, we don’t want it for our clients. ✨

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08/02/2025

You guys — the end of this week was wild — in the best way.

Thursday: The most intentional, detail-oriented wedding at The Mansion at Woodward Park. My couple flew in from Florida to get married in front of their favorite people — and it was stunning and they were absolutely precious.

Friday: Staging appointment + tasting appointment + logistics meeting with my clients from Dallas who are getting married at Philbrook in October. It’s going to be insane in the best way — legit a true experience.

Today: Details meeting with my clients from DC who are flying in next month to get married at Spain Ranch. It’s going to be so them — tandem bike and all.

Tomorrow: Coffee with clients who flew in from Boston so we can finalize vendors + go over details for the dreamiest ceremony + elevated dinner party happening in December at The Bellview.

Every single one of these couples lives out of state. Every single one has trusted me with something that means the world to them. I don’t take that lightly. And I don’t take this job for granted.

Tired? Absolutely. But so dang thankful.

🤍🤍🤍

07/26/2025

Not a big Shark Week girl ….. but my boys just saw a commercial and yelled, “MOM, it’s PAUL!!”

Last year, I had the immense privilege of planning a private nonprofit event with none other than Paul de Gelder — yes, that Paul from Shark Week. And when I say every single person in the room was blown away by his story, I mean every single one.

He’s one of the best humans I’ve had the privilege of meeting. Brave, kind, wildly inspiring — and somehow even cooler in person.

We had the best conversations, and he even FaceTimed my kids to tell them goodnight. Total hero move.

Truly one of those “I’ll never forget this” moments for EGC. A core memory kind of night.

🤎🤎🤎

photo: Emily Barbee Photography
venue: Tulsa Club Hotel

07/25/2025

Here’s to the clients who are living real life and planning a wedding.

Because both are happening at the same time — and it’s not always simple, actually, it’s really hard.

Work deadlines. Travel. Family stuff. Exhausting weeks. It’s all real. And it doesn’t pause just because you’re engaged.

That’s why we build in margin.

• So there’s a call on the calendar each month to reset and refocus — no guessing, just clarity.

• So you know your goals and priorities, which makes it easier to say yes to the right things (and no to the rest).

• So your checklist is realistic — paced in a way that feels achievable, even when life is anything but quiet.

Our planning process isn’t about perfection.
It’s about helping you feel prepared. Aware. Supported.

So when life pulls you away for a week or two, you can come back to a clear next step. Not panic.

These dreamy details from a southern wedding in Alabama?

They didn’t happen because everything was flawless.
They happened because there was a plan (and a plan B that we had to switch to last minute) AND there was room for life to happen along the way.

This is how our clients spend their weekends: living life and planning something beautiful — with space for both.

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The people who made this dreamy day happen:

Bar:
Cake: family friend, Desiree
Catering:
Content Creator: .byeva
DJ:
Florist:
Hair + Makeup:
Linen Banners:
Live Painter: .hopestudios
Photo:
Photo Booth:
Stationary:
Venue:
Wedding Planner:

07/22/2025

Who you invite into your wedding matters.

Not just onto the guest list — but into the planning process.

The people you ask for input + ones standing beside you on the day you say I do.

Because here’s the truth: Your wedding party sets the tone.

Their energy, their support, their presence — it shapes the experience more than most people realize.

I flew to Alabama for this wedding, but the story started two summers ago in OKC.

I was coordinating a wedding there (shout out to my sweet couple + .norton_) and Derrick was a groomsman. He told me he was going to propose soon and hoped I’d meet his future fiancé.

We met.

We clicked.

And just a few months after he popped the question, they called and we got to work.

Fast forward to this summer:

+ Lunch at a vineyard with the bride’s mom.

+ A rehearsal where the wedding party made me feel like family.

+ The kind of vendor team that reminds you why you love what you do.

+ And a day that felt personal, joyful, and full of meaning.

The people around you matter — and I’m so grateful I got to be one of them for + .

If you’re in the thick of planning, don’t overlook your wedding party + vendor team.

Choose people who know you, support you, and bring peace to the process.

07/18/2025

It was never about trends and honestly, it was better than any of the Pinterest ideas we found.

Kaylie + Derrick’s wedding at The Lumpkin House in Alabama was full of details you couldn’t ignore — but what made it unforgettable wasn’t what it looked like.

It was who it was for + how it perfectly represented them individually, and, told their love story all at the same time.

+ Custom golf balls as favors — a playful nod to Saturday mornings on the green for him

+ “Love is…” notes from Kaylie’s elementary students at every table — heartfelt and deeply her

+ And Coley, their pup, showing up in the most charming ways throughout the day

Their wedding can’t be replicated — because it was completely them.

That’s what we do here — we listen closely, plan intentionally, and design weddings that feel like you.

We’re just getting started sharing what made their day feel so right — and it only gets better from here.

If that’s the kind of wedding you’re dreaming of, let’s talk.

07/14/2025

Most people don’t actually know what a wedding planner does.

*** And spoiler alert — it’s not just picking out pretty things. 😘 ***

FACTS:

• You don’t need more Pinterest boards or ideas you’ll never use.

• You need someone who can bring it all together.

• Someone to protect your priorities.

• Someone to make sure this whole thing actually feels like you.

Here’s what it looks like to plan a wedding with me:

+ We walk through the process together — start to finish.

+ We make decisions that make sense for you (not just what everyone else is doing).

+ We build a plan, design a space, and create a day that’s calm, personal, and full of meaning.

Whether you’re just getting started or deep into decision making, I offer 4 packages to make your life way easier and the engagement season actually enjoyable.

I’m not just here for the seating chart.

I’m here to make sure you feel so sure about every part of this day.

I take on a limited number of weddings each year so I can show up fully for every single one.

2026 spots are officially open, and if you’re planning a day that matters — one that feels like you from start to finish — I’d be honored to be in your corner.

Click the link in our bio to fill out our inquiry form or head over to eriellegraycreative.com/contact!

07/13/2025

I’ve been working on giving the EGC website a little glow-up, and I’m finally ready to share it with you — and I’m kind of obsessed.

If you have two seconds to SHARE this to your own feed, it would truly mean the world. You never know who might see it —someone planning a wedding, hosting something big, or just needing a little extra help — and they might’ve never heard of my business otherwise.

Word of mouth is still how almost every single new client finds me. So when you share, comment, or send someone my way, it matters more than you know.

Sharing posts like these is literally what keeps small businesses alive 🤍

Erielle Gray Creative is a Tulsa-based wedding and event planning company serving couples across the U.S. We specialize in intentional, elevated weddings that reflect your story, style, and what matters most. Experience personal, high-touch planning from day one.

07/12/2025

Hi, I’m Erielle :)

Founder of EGC. Devoted Christ follower. Wife to Andrew (aka AG, aka Coach Gray). Mom to two precious boys, Sawyer and Owen… plus three more in heaven: Camden, and two we didn’t get the chance to meet. Every one of these relationships has shaped the way I see the world, especially in this work.

My sister took these photos during our annual summer trip to Seaside, so it felt like the perfect time to reintroduce myself.

If you know me, you know I’m completely smitten with my guys and rarely far from the people in these photos — or planning the next time we’ll all be together. Family is everything to me. The titles of wife, mom, daughter, and sister are ones I hold close because of the people they connect me to.

EGC was a dream for a long time — one I built during one of the hardest seasons for our family, while working a corporate job in a new town, with few connections and a whole lot of hope.

What started as a side hustle grew into something that is now my full-time job, and truly one of the greatest privileges of my life.

Outside of being fully obsessed with my family and this business, I’m …

+ a full-blown coffee snob (thanks, AG) — we travel with our boujee espresso machine and we’re not even sorry about it

+ a devoted reader of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — every summer, without fail

+ a sucker for a good Netflix doc (currently hooked on the Trainwreck series — anyone else?!)

+ fully in love with sourdough and the process it takes to perfect the loaf — I got my first starter from my cousin a few years ago and haven’t looked back

+ a foodie at heart — I love a fine dining experience but will always say yes to Taco Bueno

+ doing the work in therapy — I started counseling in January and it’s been one of the best gifts I’ve ever given myself

So that’s me — the face behind EGC.

If you’ve made it here, thank you. Thank you for following along, for caring, for being here.

And if you’re planning something meaningful, I’d be honored to be part of it.

So much gratitude,
-e

07/01/2025

At one of our favorite places on earth with our favorite people.

Any inquires we get this week will get 15% off any package because, well, we are just super grateful for this life and the business Jesus has blessed us!

Inquire here —> eriellegraycreative.com/contact

P. S. If you refer someone you get a thank you gift $$!

Get in touch with Erielle Gray Creative to start planning your intentional, seamless, and unforgettable wedding or event. Let’s create something extraordinary together.