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Erielle Gray Creative, Broken Arrow, OK (2025)

06/04/2025

Hunter + Brennen didn’t plan their wedding for Pinterest. They planned it for them.

And that’s exactly what made it unforgettable.

They said yes to a checkered dance floor that brought the energy.

Yes to glow sticks and sunglasses because the dance floor should feel like a party.

Yes to an audio guestbook — so the memories sound just as good as they looked.

Yes to a dress change and comfy shoes so Hunter could dance without thinking twice.

Yes to a live band ( ohh heyyy, ) because music should move you.

Yes to dark, moody florals in the middle of summer because the vibe mattered more than the season.

And yes to cozy lounge furniture + stylish chairs from — because their guests deserved to feel just as cared for.

None of it was about trends.

Every choice reflected what mattered to them.

That’s the magic — not just beautiful, but personal.

That’s how I plan.

If you’re looking for someone who’ll help you cut the noise, trust your gut, and plan a wedding that actually feels like you— I’d be honored.

06/04/2025

what a dream of a morning 💭🥹

just got off a zoom call with Martha Stewart — legit can’t believe I’m typing that.

a few years ago I bet on myself and started this business. so grateful for the people I’ve met, served, and partnered with to make things like this happen.

keep following along — it’s just going to keep getting better!

05/29/2025

This isn’t just a wedding post.

It’s a thank-you to one of the most thoughtful, genuine, joy-filled people I’ve ever had the chance to know.

Hunter didn’t just plan a wedding — she planned with heart.

Real + intentional heart.

She’s the kind of person who makes you feel like you’ve known her forever.

The kind who thinks of others even when the spotlight’s **supposed to be on her**.

Every step of the way, it felt like I was planning with a friend — not just a client — and that’s exactly who she became to me.

She paid attention.

She showed up.

She cared deeply about the people around her.

And that kind of goodness? It’s rare.

And then there’s Brennen — the kindest, most steady presence. All he wanted was for Hunter’s day to be everything she hoped for.

You could see how much he adores her in every single moment. The way they love each other made their whole day feel extra special.

Their wedding was beautiful, no doubt.

But what I’ll remember most is who they are — kind, grounded, intentional, and full of so much love.

These are the kinds of people I get to work with.

This is what makes this job feel so personal.

Hunter + Brennen, thank you for letting me be a part of it.

🤍🤍🤍

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05/27/2025

The details aren’t always things.

Of course the flat lays, the florals, the something borrowed — like the ring gifted to Brennen, passed down from his grandfather, tucked inside the original ring box Hunter made sure was there — those matter.

But the details that really stay with you? They’re the moments with your people.

Like her dad crying the second he saw her during their first look because he was so proud.

Her mom placing the veil and telling her how beautiful she looked.

The bridesmaids bursting with joy because they knew she was marrying her best friend.

And Brennen’s guys making sure he was fully ready — jacket on, tie straight, nerves in check — so he could have a quiet moment with his mom before walking down the aisle to Hunter.

That’s what we made time for.

Hunter was one of those rare clients who truly got what mattered most.

From the start, she trusted me to build a timeline that wasn’t just about logistics—it was about space.

Presence.

Breathing room.

Because when your day is filled with the people and the moments that matter most, it’s not just beautiful — it’s unforgettable.

05/13/2025

There’s planning a wedding . . . .

and then there’s creating a moment people will never stop talking about.

This one? 110% that.

The bride had the idea: surprise her OSU-loving groom with a visit from Pistol Pete.

She made it official — I handled the logistics of working it into the timeline without her husband knowing, sneaking him into the venue, and then watching the surprise unfold.

We timed it just right.

“All I Do Is Win” started playing, Pistol Pete walked in, and the whole room lit up yelling O-S-U like they were back in Stillwater.

It was the exact memory she wanted to give her husband — and it landed perfectly.

These are the moments I’ll always fight for.

Weddings that aren’t just beautiful, but curated to create memories that last.

05/08/2025

Say it with me … ELEVATED DINNER PARTY for all your reception goals.

It’s not just a meal.

It’s an experience layered in intention.

Candles everywhere.

Stone table numbers.

Place cards that feel too pretty to leave behind.

A table designed for connection, curated down to the glassware.

The first course feels personal.

The setting feels like you.

Personalized.

Thoughtful.

A little boujee.

Very vibey.

And absolutely unforgettable.

If this is your dream wedding day energy — we’re already on the same page + curating weddings like this daily.

🤍🤍🤍

05/07/2025

During their first look, Lindsey surprised Hayden with his name patch from his Marine uniform sewn into her dress.

That one moment said everything about her.

Thoughtful.

Intentional.

Completely in tune with what matters most.

From the beginning, Lindsey led with heart.

She wasn’t planning a wedding just to impress people— she wanted it to mean something.

What we created wasn’t just beautiful — it was personal.

A modern, romantic dinner party that felt like them in every detail.

Some clients remind you exactly why you do this work.

Lindsey is one of them.

If you’re dreaming of a day full of meaning and intention — not trends — I’d love to help you bring it to life.

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05/05/2025

The vibe was clear from the start.

Tulips in the bridesmaids’ hands. Good bourbon in the groom’s. The kind of details that don’t scream for attention — but say everything.

Thoughtful, stylish, and true to them.

You didn’t just attend Lauren and Alec’s wedding — you experienced it.

Guests were met with champagne the second they stepped onto the grounds at Philbrook. Private access to the galleries. Gardens that felt like a dream.

It was calm.

Intentional.

Elevated without being overdone.

Dinner was more like a dinner party — pre-plated salads, pizzas scattered across the table, ramekins of pasta passed around, and specialty pizzas served by staff throughout the evening.

It felt like a slow, thoughtful Italian dinner in the middle of a Tulsa villa. The vibe was immersive and the energy was effortless.

Every second of the night was thoughtful and welcoming, just like them.

If this is what your wedding dreams are made of — a stunning ceremony followed by an elevated dinner party where every detail is an experience for your guests — let’s make it happen.

We’d be honored to help bring it to life.

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05/02/2025

She has been dreaming about this day since she was a little girl.

Not just the dress or the flowers — but how it would feel.

She wanted to be present.

To look around and take it all in.

To feel the weight of the moment — but none of the pressure.

And that’s exactly what it was.

The doors of Asbury Church opened.

And as the church bells rang—yes, actually rang—she and Alec walked out hand in hand, straight onto the Tulsa trolley.

It felt like the ending of a movie… and the start of everything.

What you’ll see in the photos:

Her getting ready with her mom, calm and joyful.

Her dad holding it together during their first look.

Her groom, relaxed with a drink in hand.

Two families celebrating—fully present, not a single person working.

And one last dance, just the two of them, before the night ended exactly how it was supposed to: full of love, laughter, and everything they hoped for.

She didn’t want to just plan a wedding.

She wanted to experience it.

And she did.

The day she dreamed of, lived exactly how it was meant to be.

Introducing Mrs. Lauren Fehr!

🤍🤍🤍

04/30/2025

Lauren dreamed of a wedding that felt like Italy — and we curated every detail to bring that vision to life, right in the heart of Tulsa.

From day one, she cared deeply about the experience her guests would have. Everything was chosen with intention — the linens, the textures, the way the tables were layered — all designed to feel warm, elevated, and completely unforgettable. Even their three dogs were part of the celebration, with custom cookies placed at each setting.

With over 200 guests gathered outdoors on the Philbrook lawn, it was one of those rare days where the details, the setting, and the heart behind it all aligned perfectly.

It’s always an honor to create something this personal — where every moment feels meaningful, and no guest leaves untouched by the experience.

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04/23/2025

Let me tell you the story behind these photos.

What you see is beauty and ease — smiles that are real, moments that feel like magic, a day that just worked.

But what you don’t always see is what’s happening behind the scenes.

You see stunning images — because the photographer had space, time, and a clear plan to capture them.

You see happy parents + grandparents — because they weren’t checking in catering or wondering where the linens go.

You see a day that flowed seamlessly — because an entire vendor team showed up and crushed it, and I was there to make sure every moving part came together.

That’s what I do.

I’m not the florist or the DJ or the caterer.

I’m the one making sure they can do what they do best.

I’m cueing the moments, managing the timing, solving the problems before anyone knows there was one — so you don’t have to.

You get to be the bride.

Your people get to be fully present.

And your vendors get to work in their zone of genius.

And that? That’s when you have one of the best days of your life.

Don’t wait to reach out — let’s start planning now so you can actually enjoy the process and be fully present for the day you’ve been dreaming of.

🤍🤍🤍

04/19/2025

Some weddings just feel different. 🤍

Not because of the timeline (though we nailed that) or the design (which was stunning), but because of who’s at the center of it.

Caitlin has been in my life since the moment she entered the world. I was the first person she stopped crying for in the hospital, and we’ve had this crazy, one-of-a-kind bond ever since.

Getting to plan her wedding was personal in every way. I’ve seen her grow into the incredible woman she is, and being asked to walk alongside her during this season was something I’ll never take for granted.

Her day was so special—not just because it was beautiful, but because of who she chose to surround herself with. The people in the room, the energy they brought, and the way her vendor team showed up with excellence made every moment feel intentional and full of love.

I pour a lot into the weddings I plan. Time, logistics, emotional investment—it all matters. Because at the end of the day, I’m not just managing a timeline. I’m standing beside people I care deeply about as they walk into one of the biggest moments of their lives.

Caitlin + Clayton, it was such a joy to watch you live out your best day. Thank you for trusting me to help bring it to life.

P.S. Peep their first look photos—they’re everything. A 10/10 moment I’ll always recommend for couples who want a quiet pause together before the day unfolds. You won’t regret carving out that time just for the two of you.

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