07/29/2025
Engaged? Let’s be honest—wedding planning can take over your whole life if you’re not careful.
One minute you’re excited. The next, you’re drowning in RSVPs, group chats, and seating charts thinking,
“Wait... when did this stop being fun?”
Before the planning chaos starts, do these 10 things to stay grounded, connected, and actually enjoy the experience of getting married:
1. Talk about life after the wedding
This isn’t the finish line. It’s the beginning. Have the “what’s next” conversation now.
2. Say no as a team
Boundaries = peace. Start practicing now—guest list, traditions, expectations. You two decide.
3. Take a break from all the wedding talk
Choose a night where it’s just you. No spreadsheets. No pressure. Just presence.
4. Surprise each other with a keepsake
A letter. A playlist. Something that says “I know you.” (It’ll become one of your favorite memories.)
5. Delegate the final details
Your wedding week should not feel like admin work. Let people help.
6. Create a wedding morning routine
Set the vibe you want—calm, hype, intimate, fun. It’ll shape the rest of your day.
7. Practice gratitude together
A quick note, a quiet moment, a “thank you for being you.” That’s the magic.
8. Talk through your ceremony together
It’s easy to obsess over the party. But this is the moment. Align on what it means to you both.
9. Visualize the full day
Walk through it—emotionally. From coffee to last dance. How do you want it to feel?
10. Celebrate the journey
This isn’t just about the day. It’s about how far you’ve come. Toast to that.
💗 This isn’t about perfect timelines. It’s about meaningful moments.
They’re how you stay present. How you feel grounded.
How you show up for each other, not just the guests.
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📍For Maryland, DC, VA, PA and Destination couples
Your wedding should feel like you. We’ll make sure of it.
