Memento Mori Event Center

Memento Mori Event Center Rent the entire VENUE for any event, even kids b-day parties! Starting at $250 an hour. Weddings, XV’s, Private Parties, Fundraisers. Up to 250 people

08/18/2026

DON’T have a baller wedding… if you ain’t a real baller. 😂💍

There. I said it.

Have the beautiful wedding.
Have the dream wedding.
Have the unforgettable wedding.

But don’t go $30K, $40K, $50K into debt trying to impress people for ONE day.

Because guess what?

Your guests are going to eat, drink, dance, go home…

and YOU’RE the one stuck with the bill on Monday. 💳😂

Spend where it matters.
Cut what doesn’t.
Prioritize the experience.

A classy wedding does NOT have to mean an irresponsible wedding.

So let’s settle it:

Would you rather have a $50K wedding… or a $15K wedding and $35K still in the bank? 👀

Ladies want equality… until it’s time to buy the ring and get down on one knee. 👀💍If you already know he’s the man you w...
08/16/2026

Ladies want equality… until it’s time to buy the ring and get down on one knee. 👀💍

If you already know he’s the man you want to marry, why should you have to sit around waiting for him to ask?

Tradition—or double standard?

Ladies, would you propose to your man?

Men, be honest: Would you proudly say yes, or would it hurt your ego? 😂👇

Unpopular wedding opinion:STOP inviting people you don’t even want there just because you’re scared they’ll get offended...
08/15/2026

Unpopular wedding opinion:

STOP inviting people you don’t even want there just because you’re scared they’ll get offended. 👀

Your wedding is not a family reunion, neighborhood gathering, work function, or charity event for everybody’s feelings. 😂

If you haven’t talked to them in years…
If you’re only inviting them because your mom said so…
If seeing their name on the guest list already stresses you out…

WHY ARE THEY COMING?

Every obligation invite costs you:

Money.
Space.
Energy.
Peace of mind.

And for what?

So somebody you barely talk to can eat your dinner, drink your alcohol, and leave before the cake? 😂

Your guest list should be filled with people you genuinely love, genuinely want there, and genuinely want to celebrate with.

Not people you invited out of guilt.

So be honest…

How many people on YOUR guest list are there because you feel obligated? 👀

POLL:

Do obligation invites belong at weddings?

I didn’t just wake up one day and decide to open an event venue.I’ve been doing this for more than 20 years.At 21, I sta...
08/14/2026

I didn’t just wake up one day and decide to open an event venue.

I’ve been doing this for more than 20 years.

At 21, I started a photography and videography business shooting weddings, quinceañeras and special events to help put myself through college. What began as a way to pay for school became one of the biggest passions of my life.

I earned my Bachelor’s in Spanish and Master’s in School Counseling.

By 2012, I was running one of the largest Photo Booth companies in the Central Valley — even designing and manufacturing my own booths and selling them across the U.S.

Then came Elegante.

In 2016, I became the owner and operator of one of Bakersfield’s most recognized event venues, helping bring hundreds of celebrations to life.

At the same time, I built a career as a high school educator and was even nominated for Teacher of the Year.

Looking back, both worlds shaped me:

Events taught me how to create unforgettable experiences.
Teaching taught me how to communicate, organize, lead and guide people through stressful situations.

In 2020, I stepped away from events to focus on family. In 2023, I opened a restaurant — and realized how much I missed weddings.

The planning. The design. The problem-solving. Turning someone’s vision into something real.

So here we are: Memento Mori Event Center.

This is my return to something I’ve loved for more than two decades — bringing together planning, design, venue management, photography and marketing.

You’re also going to see more of me talking about weddings differently — money, family drama, vendors, traditions, mistakes and a few opinions that might get me in trouble. 😂

And one more thing:

You do NOT have to get married at Memento Mori to work with me.

I’m officially bringing back my Wedding Planning & Event Consulting services — in Bakersfield, California and for destination weddings.

Sometimes one hour with the right person can save you thousands and months of stress.

So after a few years away…

The wedding planner is officially back. 👑

I may have stepped away from the throne…

but I never gave up the crown.

Let’s create something unforgettable. 🥂

08/11/2026

Bakersfield’s premier event venue, conveniently located at the Municipal Airport! ✈️

From baby showers and quinceañeras to weddings and celebrations of every kind, we offer customized and all-inclusive packages designed around your vision.

DM us today to schedule a private tour! ✨

08/11/2026

🔥 UNPOPULAR WEDDING OPINION 🔥

It’s YOUR wedding… not your mother’s. 😅

Moms, we love you. We know you mean well. But sometimes the bride needs room to make her own choices, pick her own decor, decide which traditions she actually wants, and yes… choose the guest list without inviting the entire neighborhood. 😂

Brides: set boundaries early, respectfully, and clearly.

Moms: please don’t get mad at me… but some of y’all can be a handful during wedding planning. 🤣❤️

At the end of the day, advice is welcome. Support is priceless. But the final decision should belong to the couple getting married.

Agree or disagree? 👀

Tag a bride who needs to hear this… or a mom who’s about to block me. 😂

06/18/2026

One Price. One Venue. No Stress.

Text 661-932-1318

05/05/2026

New event center coming to town!

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2000 S Union
Bakersfield, CA
93307

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