Rev. A. Benae Colbert - Ceremonies for Life

05/25/2026

When Purpose Is Paused: Reflections on Service, Recovery, and Returning to What I Love

This Memorial Day, I’ve found myself reflecting on service, sacrifice, and appreciation for the ordinary parts of life we often assume will always be there. I’m remembering family members who served, and also feeling especially aware of how quickly life can change.

As spring wedding season comes to a close, I’m grieving more than the physical challenges of recovery. One of the hardest parts has been missing the opportunity to stand with couples on one of the happiest days of their lives and officiate the weddings that bring me so much purpose and joy. Along with that loss has come the reality of lost income at a time when medical bills, transportation to appointments, and recovery expenses continue to grow.

Physical therapy has begun — a hopeful step forward, but one that has also brought new pain as I work to regain movement in my ankle. If you’ve been following this journey, thank you for every message, encouragement, and act of support. And if you’re willing to help, one of the most meaningful things you can do is share our GoFundMe with your network. Every share helps carry us through this season and brings us one step closer to getting back to the work and life I love.

On April 8, our world tilted—literally. And we need help. My wif… Anna M. Colbert needs your support for When Life Breaks You (Literally): Help Benae Heal

03/17/2026

Spring weddings in Central Texas are… an experience. 😄

One minute it's 90 degrees and sunny, the next you're wondering if you should've brought a coat (and maybe a backup plan for your backup plan).

After 20+ years as an officiant, I've seen it all—and I can honestly say, the magic is still there every single time. The key? A little flexibility, a sense of humor, and the right people by your side.

Oh—and don't forget your officiant. (Yes, that happens more than you'd think 😉)

If you're planning a spring wedding, I just shared some real-life tips, a few stories, and what to expect this time of year in Central Texas.

💌 If you're still looking for someone to create a ceremony that feels like you, I'd love to help.

👉https://www.ceremoniesforlife.org/post/spring-in-texas-where-your-wedding-might-need-sunglasses-and-a-coat

02/24/2026

Your wedding ceremony isn’t just something to “get through.”
It’s the reason everyone gathers.

It’s the moment you promise your lives to each other.
The breath before the kiss.
The words you’ll remember long after the cake is gone.

Whether you’re planning an intimate elopement or a fully personalized ceremony in Austin, I help couples create something meaningful, heartfelt, and truly reflective of who they are.

2026 dates are already booking, so if you’re in the planning stage, now is a beautiful time to reach out.

🤍 www.ceremoniesforlife.org

Let’s create something that feels like you.

01/21/2026

Writing your own wedding vows can feel daunting, but with a little honest intention and a dash of Texas heart, it becomes one of the most meaningful parts of your ceremony. Read more in my latest blog post, Tales From the Pulpit!

Writing your own wedding vows has become one of the most meaningful parts of modern ceremonies. Read pro advice from Rev. Benae on how to do it as painlessly as possible.

01/21/2026

I recently met with a wonderfully sweet and fun couple with whom I really connected. As we were wrapping up the Ceremony Consult, the last question was: Can we write our own vows, and do you have any advice?

Boy, DO I! Read more in my latest blog "Tales From the Pulpit" blog post!

Writing your own wedding vows has become one of the most meaningful parts of modern ceremonies. Read pro advice from Rev. Benae on how to do it as painlessly as possible.

12/14/2025

I’m Rev. A. Benae Colbért — for over 20 years, I’ve been honored to craft ceremonies across Austin and Central Texas that celebrate every kind of love. I’ll marry you to whomever you want—however, wherever—with a personalized process that honors your story, culture, and values. Ready to create vows that feel like you? Link in bio. 💍🤍✨

12/04/2025

Love isn't perfect, but it's always worth it. After 20 years behind the altar, here's my guide to thriving in marriage—grace, laughter, and all in my latest post on "Tales from the Pulpit"! ❤️

As I wrap up my 20th year officiating weddings, I find myself reflecting on the incredible privilege of standing alongside couples at the very beginning of their shared journey. I've had the honor of witnessing countless declarations of love, the first moments a couple commits to one another in fron...

12/04/2025

Hey, I was featured in a local Austin magazine! Check it out!

Today we’d like to introduce you to Rev. A. Benae Colbért. Alright, so thank you so much for sharing your story and insight with our readers. To kick things off, can you tell us a bit about how you got started?I’ve often joked that my life has been shaped by contradictions—part hippie, part T...