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19/12/2025

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19/12/2025

My best friend likes me I’m an 18M, and my best friend is 17F. We’ve definitely been good friends for about a year and a half or more. We talk everyday, reels, joke around, and all that other stuff.
“The issue is… she obviously likes me.”
She’s actually left me a lot of subtle hints along the way. I picked up on the hints, but I’ve been playing ignorant for my own reasons. I’ve always treated her like my little sister, and I respect her immensely, but I never had any real feelings for her. Furthermore, I’m not looking to get involved in any relationship drama at the moment, since my primary focus is my studies.
What makes it difficult for me is that it seems like everyone around her knows what is going on. I once heard her friends tell her that she should come clean about it to me, which is what I had suspected anyway. This is stressing me out since I do not want to make things awkward for her or hurt her.
I’m scared that If I do not accept her directly, it will mean the end of my friendship with her
If I continue pretending that I do not notice, then I’m indirectly leading her on. A relationship should never
If she confesses suddenly, I would not be able to react correctly.
I appreciate this friendship immensely and do not wish to lose it, but nor do I wish to offer any false hopes. what is the best way to turn her off without blowing the friendship?
Should I bring it up before she confesses or wait until then?

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17/12/2025

1: Gender: female
2: Age: 27

EDUCATION DETAILS:
1: Qualifications: Bachelor’s of commerce (Graduate)
Diploma IT Professional level
Diploma in Graphic Design
4: Marital Status: khulafied
5: Height: 5’4
6: Complexion : fair

CERTIFICATIONS:
Advance IT Professional
Graphic Desiging
IELTS from berlitz
Microsoft Specialist
Film and production
Online Reporting from Institute of journalism

JOB: working as Senior Graphic Designer at Cosmetic brand

RELIGION DETAILS:
1: Maslak: sunni (no nazr-o-niyaz)
2: Cast: Syed

FAMILY DETAILS:
1: Father’s Occupation: retired from corporate
2 Siblings: 1 sister married , 1 younger brother he’s working at reputed org. And studying

More : looking youger than her age, fair smart slim and very beautiful, pray five times a day, house oriented

INTERESTS:
love travelling | outings | long drives | exploring new food places | Calligraphy Art | loves Shopping | Self Care.

Requirements :
29- 34 age, good job or business with handsome salary six figures
Well settled, own house in karachi.. should be Respectful responsible mature caring loving partner who values family and being respectful, graduate or masters, single or divorced no kids.

DEAL BREAKERS:
Manipulative indecisive and liers are big no and red flags

13/12/2025

We've been married for almost a year now (29M and 27F) and we've been renting together for almost 5 months. Everything's going well alhamdulillah but there's just one tiny issue bugging me.
A bit of background but he works full time as a software engineer. I work alternate weeks 3/4 days as a nurse. He pays for rent and the bills.
In terms of household split, I basically do all the cooking and 80% of the cleaning. As a result it can be tiring sometimes, especially after long hospital shifts and all I want to do is sleep.
I went to my parents house a few weeks ago and they've recently upgraded their tech to a robot vacuum and also they have a new dryer for their clothes. Honestly, I've never really thought much about such appliances as I've always found them a bit gimmicky. But after seeing my parents use them, I'm actually impressed at how much labour they dryer saves you (not having to manually hang clothes on the line etc.) and how the robot vacuum can be automated to clean whenever you want.

I suggested the ideas to my husband (we have a ragdoll cat so a lot of hair fall) and how much time these things would save me if I invested in them. To my surprise, he completely shut down the idea saying he has no finances for it.

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I was like that's okay, it's something I'm willing to spend on myself because it will help improve my own QOL. He then went pretty quiet and reserved for a few days. I then confronted him about it and asked him if it was over the appliances and he went on a tirade about how women are not as good as they used to be 30 years ago. I was quite taken aback and asked what he meant and he was basically insinuating that women have become lazy and don't want to use elbow grease, instead they want to automate things and it makes them lazy and not feminine and he can't respect a woman who'd want things like this. He hasn't spoken to me in 2 days now and honestly, I'm kinda questioning everything about our relationship now. I just don't know if I'm overreacting by feeling hurt and questioning his agenda now?

13/12/2025

Me (30M) & my wife (24F) had lived together for just over 1 year (after Nikkah). My wife fell pregnant in October and then a week later we signed our legal marriage certificate. We were only legally married for 12 days. My pregnant wife suddenly walked out on me after an argument, went home to her parents and told them a ton of lies and fake accusations about me, and didnt speak at all in the 5 weeks she was gone. Her family sent me threats and ultimatums. I figured that she got married to me just to use me to have a child (and money). She was compulsively obsessed with having a child from Day #1. Also, I believe her family controlled her and told her not to speak to me. 3 days ago she had asked to come get her belongings

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Had a call from her brother and from herself today to say shes been rushed to hospital. I went straight there, and she wanted me at her bedside over her family. She had the miscarriage and then went in for surgery. Her family slung several insults at me, but I just kept my mouth shut and held her hand for hours.

I'm traumatized beyond recognition. Paralyzed. Shell shocked....

Its as if she wants me back now that the baby is gone. How do i navigate this? What do I do? How do I recover...

13/12/2025

Gender: Female
Age: 24 years
Education: ICS from Kinnaird College, Lahore (Board Topper, Gold Medalist). BS Computer Science from Information Technology University (ITU), Lahore (University Topper).

Marital status: Single, never married
Height: 5’5”

Profession: Software Engineer working in a reputable software house in Lahore. Income is stable and can be discussed later if required.

Religion: Islam
Sect: Sunni
Caste: Qureshi

Nationality: Pakistani
Residence: Bahria Town, Lahore
City: Lahore
House: Own (approximately 2.5–3 kanal)

Family details: Father is owner of schools. Mother is a housewife. One brother and two sisters. One sister is engaged.

Looking for a suitable match with age up to 30 years, height 5’7” or above. The boy and his family should be based in Lahore. Caste preference is any except Arain. Minimum qualification required is a Bachelor’s degree, preferably in IT or a technical field.

12/12/2025

My husband and I have been married for two months now. During the first few days of settling in, he kept asking to be intimate, but I was not comfortable just yet. As I got used to my new position and the new dynamics, I started dressing up for him and trying to be intimate with him, but he rejected all my advances. I would try to look pleasing for him when he returned from work, but he rejected me and would not give me a hug. Yesterday, I tried to advance, and he said no again. I pressed him further to ask why, and he said, do you think you can just reject me when you want and that would not make me feel uncomfortable, but now because you are ready, I have to be? I do not know how to fix things. He did not seem upset every time I said no. He told me to take my time, but now he has come out with this. How do I make him more comfortable?

12/12/2025

So I did the dance. Obeyed my parents. Followed every teaching. Wore the scarf. Didn’t talk to boys. Went to every mosque event, volunteered, did charity. Went to school, got the job…All of it felt like time pass, a way to stay a “good girl,” to stay focused, to not get distracted until God supposedly rewards you with the real end goal: marriage. And I did that. I got married. And then I gSo I did the dance. Obeyed my parents. Followed every teaching. Wore the scarf. Didn’t talk to boys. Went to every mosque event, volunteered, did charity. Went to school, got the job…All of it felt like time pass, a way to stay a “good girl,” to stay focused, to not get distracted until God supposedly rewards you with the real end goal: marriage. And I did that. I got married. And then I got divorced.
Spent a year with a covert narcissist. Thankfully got out with no kids. But now I’m back in my childhood room, under my parents’ roof, surrounded by the same walls I thought I’d only see in old memories.
I did everything I was supposed to. Every box checked. Every rule followed. And yet here I am, feeling like I’ve been reset back to level one with no map and no questline.
I’m at a loss for a path. What happens now? What do I do when the “end goal” I was raised to chase disappears?
Life feels stagnant. Everyone tells you to be patient, trust God’s plan, wait for the “right one.” But I don’t want waiting to be my whole life again. I don’t want to be stuck in this limbo.
If starting a family was supposed to be the ending… what’s the plot now?
I don’t know. I just needed to say it out loud. Maybe someone can relate.

I grew up in a culture that put marriage on a pedestal. When that facade finally cracked and dropped out from under me, it hurt in a way I didn’t expect. This isn’t about longing for what was. It’s just me grieving the version of myself that naively followed what my parents and culture told me was the “right path.”

This post is for me to share my sorrows with those who have been through the same. To connect. I dont need blanket advice or accusations of my peity not being genuine.

What I’m really grieving is the version of myself I never got to become. I’m mourning the years I spent following a script instead of writing my own. The things I’m learning now at 27: about identity, boundaries, desire, and autonomy, are things I could have learned at 17 if I’d been allowed to see myself as a person in my own right. If someone had told me I wasn’t just an extension of my parents or my culture. This isn’t about wanting a husband or happy marriage. Nor do i see myself as a failure for being divorced. It’s about the ache of realizing how much of my life wasn’t truly mine. It’s grief for the paths I didn’t know I was allowed to take.


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