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24/08/2021

Green flags seem unnoticed nowadays.

They say, healthy relationships are boring. But imagine someone makes you feel comfortable and secure, remembers little tiny details about you including your favorites, and giving you assurance even if you not asked it. Someone you can be vulnerable with, you can be yourself, you can be genuine without disrespecting you. Someone who has clear and vivid plans about your relationship. Someone who respects your time and boundaries and understands that you have other people in your life. Someone who makes time for you, care for you, and sees your flaws as ground for bloom. Someone who never lets you sleep with a heavy heart and never take advantage of you. Someone who communicates their thoughts because they care about your relationship; that disagreements are part of it and wants it healthy.

Imagine having someone who is good for your heart.

We are blinded by red flags because they are represented by the color of love. We always think that we can change them; that they'll soon realize their mistakes; that they will have initiative to fix themselves. We assume and hope that the love we give will be an enough reason for them to be better. Or otherwise, we want plot twist, we want thrill, we want someone's not boring, we want to play games, that we forgot about peace. We forgot about the love we deserve.

We deserve a love that keeps us sane. We deserve green flags.

—Aki

Photo screencap from Nevertheless (2021)

12/03/2021

https://upliftconnect.com/the-four-elements-true-love/

Ancient teachings on love that have the power to transform our relationships.

15/08/2020

Wait for someone kind.

Wait for someone respectful, not only in the beginning stages of the relationship when things are bright and beautiful, but also when things get hard. Wait for someone who respects your boundaries and does not force you to do things that you’re not willing or ready to do.

Wait for someone who is giving and does not keep count of the good things they do for you.

Wait for someone who challenges you mentally. Someone who inspires you to be a better person.

Wait for someone who takes their time to learn and understand you.

Wait for someone who is consistent with their efforts in showing you how much they care about you.

Wait for someone who wants to be part of your world, and wants you to be part of theirs.

Wait for someone who lets you know you’re on their mind, someone who checks in on you, someone who wants you to know that they care for you.

Wait for someone who is willing to commit to you, someone who is willing to choose you.

Wait for someone who makes love feel easy, calm. Like coming home.

Wait for someone sincere. Someone who doesn’t confuse you because their actions match their words. Wait for someone honest.

Wait for someone who does their absolute best to not hurt you, someone who strives to protect your heart.

Wait for someone who will choose you over and over and over again. Love is a choice you make every single day. You deserve to find the kind of person who shows up for what you share, someone who believes in it.

Wait for someone who’s not perfect, but rather, real. Perfect is an illusion. Real is where you find something rare and special.

Wait for someone who reminds you that love was always meant to be soft.

— Maria Biñas
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02/06/2020

You deserve someone who has plans on marrying you one day.

Love is not a game. It’s an investment. Commitment.

You know, as a man you should look at your girl as the mother of your future babies. She could be your girl for a lifetime. She’ll be your baby mama, partner and bestfriend in one.

If you can’t picture her in the aisle walking towards you with a teary eye, leave her alone.

If you can’t picture out buying your first house, your dream car, building family with her, leave her alone.

If marriage isn’t the goal, then what’s the point?

Think long term. 🙏🏽

-ctto-

05/05/2020

LET LOVE HEAL YOU. 💕

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04/05/2020

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03/05/2020

THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES:
(By: Bo Sanchez)

#5. PHYSICAL TOUCH

Do you know that a baby's brain develop much quicker if he is touched more? Babies who are carried more and caressed more grow faster intellectually and even physically than babies who aren't touched often.
Why? Because our bodies are made by God to be touched.
And this doesn't apply to babies only.
As we grow older, we still want to be held, embraced and touched by other human beings -- especially by those we love. When we get our quota of touch each day, our physical bodies function better, our minds are sharper and our emotions are more stable. And I also believe that our spiritual lives are much more balanced.
There's a group of psychologist who teach that we all need four hugs a day to survive, and seven hugs a day to be really nourished.
I believed them.
I also believe that one reason (not the only reason, of course) why kids are sexually promiscuous today is because they're hungry for love -- which includes physical hugs that they don't get from their parents, particularly from their fathers.
I also believe our elderly parents now starve for this kind of affection.
Let me ask you this question: When was the last time you hugged your dad? When was the last time you hugged your mom? I encourage you to do this every time you meet.
Don't let the fear of sentimentality steal away from you and your loved ones the joy of being loved and hugged. When it comes to love, you have the license to be as corny and mushy as you want.

21/04/2020

THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES:
(By: Bo Sanchez)

#4. ACTS OF SERVICE

Some have acts of service as their primary love language.
When someone does stuff for them -- helping them in their chores, giving a shoulder massage, running an errand for them -- they feel enormously loved.
One day, a woman bought a sack of garden soil for their garden.
Coming from the store, she parked her car in front of the house. Upon opening the trunk, she saw the bag of garden soil inside and wondered how she'd lift it.
At that exact moment, to her delight, her husband peeks through the front door.
He hollers, "Sweetheart, be careful! You might hurt your back and get a slipped disc. Remember to use your knees, not your back, when you carry..."
And in the blink of an eye, he disappears into the house!
It's clear that the primary love language of the man was words of affirmation.
He was sincere in sharing his concern verbally -- but that's about it.
At that particular moment, his wife needed his physical service.
Find out if the primary love language of your loved ones at home is acts of service.
If so, make a conscious effort to be more helpful.

13/04/2020

THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES:
(By: Bo Sanchez)

#3. RECEIVING GIFTS

A wife pulls her wedding ring from her finger and throws it at the feet of her husband in a fit of range. Do you think it would hurt him like a lance thrust into his heart? Yes, because the wedding ring isn't just an object. It's a symbol, and symbols carry with it a whole world of meaning.
Gifts are like that.
It could be just a wild daisy picked up from the sidewalk -- but if it's given with love to the wife (or to Mom, or a daughter, or Grandma) -- it's value skyrockets and becomes like gold.
Discern if the primary love language of your loved ones is received gifts.
If so, make a deliberate attempt to give inexpensive gifts on a more regular basis.
Obviously, on rare occasions, an expensive gift will be appreciated.
But don't underestimate the power of a simple card, a handwritten love letter, a chocolate bar or an MP3 file of her favorite song.

09/04/2020

THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES:
(By: Bo Sanchez)

#2. FOCUSED TIME TOGETHER

But let me warn you: Not all of us have words of affirmation as our primary love language.
For example, a husband could tell his wife, "I love you" 36 times a day, but if her primary love language is focused time together -- she'll never be satisfied.
So what if he texts "I miss you" a hundred times a day?
That's really nice, but if her deepest need is to spend time with him, he has to show up and be with her for her to feel really loved.
And it's got to be focused time.
I've heard husbands complain, "But sweetheart, I'm with you every day! How could you say we don't spend time together?"
Sitting beside each other in the car going to work every day doesn't count.
Sitting beside each other watching TV doesn't count.
Sitting beside each other in the living room taking care of the kids doesn't count.
Focused time together means time spent facing each other, engaged in deep communication.
That's something that should happen on a daily basis, and for a more lengthy time once a week during a special date.
In one study, they interviewed fathers and asked how much focused time they spent with their children. The average answer was "30 minutes per day."
In phase two of the study, using small microphones, they recorded the actual time these fathers spent with their kids. The shocking answer? The average actual time per day was 45 seconds.
We think we're giving time to our loved ones. But in reality, we're not.
Make a decision to increase your focused time with your family. Most likely, whatever you're giving isn't enough.

07/04/2020

THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES:
(By: Bo Sanchez)

#1. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

Can I asked you a few questions?
When was the last time you thanked your mother for serving you, for all the meals she cooked for you, for every shirt she washed for you?
When was the last time you thanked your son for being a fantastic kid, giving you so much joy for being who he is?
When was the last time you thanked your husband for every single day he goes to work and sweats it out to put food on the table?
When? Last year? Five years ago? Never?
Here's a rule I've learned: Praise your spouse and your children seven times a day. I really believe we starve our loved ones with the one thing that they need daily. Instead, we give them a feast -- a lauriat of criticism every day -- the very thing they do not need.
You want to see changes in the lives of your family?
Do it. Praise each person seven times a day.
I know what some of you are saying: "Seven? My goodness. How could I find seven things?"
Easy. Change your focus. Right now, I bet you can criticize them seven times a day -- because that's what you're focused on. Start focusing on the good in them -- no matter how small -- and you'll be surprised at the stuff you've been taking for granted.

25/09/2019

https://www.heartsintrueharmony.com/self-love/not-so-common-golden-rule.html?s=15895

Do you feel short changed or unappreciated in your relationship? Worried maybe you’ve picked the wrong partner? Here’s why true happiness with your partner feels so out of reach.