07/07/2025
BE TRUTHFUL BUT BE EXTRA CAREFUL!đź’Ż WORDS can either break or make a person.
People have different level of pain tolerance, magkakaiba rin tayo in terms of using our coping mechanisms. Maybe yung “easy” sayo “complex” para sa iba.
Wag mong i/under estimate yung experience nila just because you think na “mas mahirap” yung nga sitwasyon na pinagdaanan mo.
Most Common Mistakes in responding to a struggling person:
1. “Buti ka nga, yan lang ang problema mo. Ako nga ganito yung nangyare saken e.”
2. “Ano ka ba, wala yan, nasa isip mo lang yan.”
3. “Ang arte mo naman, mag-pray ka lilipas din yan”.
We always believe that prayer works pero wag mo idiscount yung experience and feelings ng ibang tao. Sometimes kailangan lang nila ng venue to air out. Baka instead na makatulong ka, makadagdag ka pa sa burden. (I’m sure you don’t want that to happen.)
Please be sensitive enough.✨It’s not too late to learn.💯
