07/02/2025
STOP being a nice MAN đ
The problem of being a ânice manâ in relationships is very simple.
âYouâve been lied to in your whole life, told that if youâre kind, sensitive, and always available, thatâs what women want.
That's very Wrong! Being the ânice manâ isnât what makes women fall for you, itâs what makes them walk all over you.
Reasons:
Women donât respect nice guys. They may appreciate the attention, they may even string you along, but they donât see you as the alpha, as the man they truly want.
They see you as weak.
Youâve been taken that being good means being passive, agreeable, and always putting her needs above your own. But hereâs the cold, hard truth:
women arenât attracted to men they can control.
They donât want a guy who bends over backward for them, whoâs always there at the drop of a hat, desperate for approval.
They might use you, they might keep you around for validation, but they will never see you as a real man. And thatâs why you finish last.
Nice guys are too eager to please.
Theyâre afraid of setting boundaries,
Afraid of standing up for themselves,
Afraid of being firm.
They think that being agreeable is the way to a womanâs heart, but all it does is make them look weak.
đĽ You know who gets the woman?
đ¤˛The alpha đĽ
The e man who knows his worth and doesnât need to constantly prove it.
Women donât want a man who lets them walk all over him
They want a man who commands respect without even trying.
Now, donât get it twisted.
Thereâs a big difference between being a ânice guyâ and being a good guy.
You can still be a good manâstrong, loyal, reliableâbut you donât waste your time proving it.
A good man stands in his full masculinity. He doesnât need to seek validation from anyone, least of all a woman.
He leads, he doesnât chase. He commands respect because he respects himself first.
Heâs not afraid to set boundaries and say no when necessary.
Women respect strength.
They respect confidence.
They respect a man who knows what he wants and isnât afraid to go after it.
But a nice guy đ
A nice guy is just there, waiting for permission to be liked, hoping that his constant kindness will earn him something.
But women donât give attraction based on kindness aloneâthey give it to men who embody confidence, power, and self-assurance.
Being a nice guy is exhausting because youâre always trying to prove yourself.
You think that by being overly kind and agreeable, youâll win her heart, but youâre just setting yourself up to be used and discarded.
Women know when theyâve got a man wrapped around their finger, and they will keep you in the ânice guy zoneâ while they chase the alpha.
Youâre the backup plan, the safety net,not the prize.
Be an alpha in your full masculinity if you want to be attractive.
That doesnât mean youâre arrogant or disrespectful,it means youâre a man who knows his worth, sets boundaries, and isnât afraid to stand up for himself.
You lead the relationship, you donât follow her every whim.
You have your own goals, your own vision, and you donât compromise your values to please anyone.
Hereâs what you need to understand:
Women are biologically wired to be attracted to strength.
They want a man who can protect, who can lead, who they can rely on.
Nice guys donât give off that vibe,they give off weakness, insecurity, and neediness.
And thatâs why women donât respect them.
They might say they want a nice guy, but in reality, they want a man whoâs strong, confident, and in control.
Stop wasting your time proving youâre a nice guy. Stop trying to win approval through acts of kindness alone. Be a good man, but be strong, be assertive, and be confident.
Thatâs what women are truly attracted to. You need to be the man who doesnât need to beg for respect or affection
You command it by being fully in your masculine power.
So, men, ditch the ânice guyâ act and embrace your full masculinity.
Be the alpha.
Set your own standards,
Live by your own rules, and
Watch how women naturally gravitate towards you.
Respect yourself first, and the rest will follow.
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