12/09/2013
15 WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE READY FOR MARRIAGE: (1). If you believe that you must always have the last
say in an argument,you are not ready
for marriage. (2). If you don't like anyone invading your space,
you are not ready. (3). If you're a lady,and you don't cook or don't like
to cook, your marriage is not likely to be
easy or funny. (4). If you always say things exactly how they
come to your mind not caring who is hurt, your
marriage is likely to crash. (5). If you believe you are who you are and no one
can change that, you're not ready. (6). If you think about others when you've fully
sorted yourself out, you're not ready. (7). If you are so good about holding a grudge and
you will only let go when you feel
like, stay unmarried. (8.). If you're a man and you are not engaged in
ventures or a process in time that can
financially take care of your immediate family and
beyond, you need to give yourself a few more years
to be ready. (9). If as a man, you're easily swayed and
pressurized to do things against your wish, you are
not ready for marriage. (10). If you believe that women at their best should
be good in bed and kitchen affairs only, you will end
up having a bitter and subdued wife; Stay away. (11). If your mind can't conceive the thought of
having a more successful wife, even if it is
temporary, then you have little 'growing up' to do. (12). If you have no confidence in your capability
and your future, you have no business taking
someone else with you. (13). If as a man,you don't have a mentor or leader
you follow, listen or refer to, you're not
going to be able to lead your family. (14). If you can't have wedding ceremony within a
budget you can personally afford, give yourself more
time. Who says you
can't have 20 guests or less at your wedding? Cut your coat according to your cloth and take
responsibility. As a man, you can define how
small or large you want your wedding ceremony to
be and be able to handle it. (15). If you have anger problem such that you can
destroy things when you are angry, get a
therapist to help you in managing it. Otherwise
engage God's help for the change
you seek. With anger issues, you're a disaster waiting
to explode. Marriage is an investment, what you put into it
determines what comes out of it!.