07/10/2024
Don't be bugged by the family problems...
Men
It always feel good, helping your siblings financially.
There is feeling of accomplishments,
When you put smiles on their faces.
It is an evidence that you are useful for the family .
You will be proud of yourself,
Knowing that you are doing well .
They will be proud of you and value you more.
That ecstatic feelings of fulfillment is what every man craves for.
But the reverse become the case,
When you see your siblings suffering,
But you couldn't help.
Not that you don't want to help,
But you don't have what it takes to help.
You are broke and barely surviving.
At that point, you will feel dejected, depressed and us*less.
When you see them calling, you will become afraid to pick calls,
Because, you don't want to repeat those boring stories, that wreck heart.
You will start distancing yourself from them, feeling guilty and empty.
Sometimes, you would be tempted to do something beyond your capacity,
To ensure that you contribute a quota in their lives to your own detriments.
Bro,
You are not the only one in that situation.
Cheer up mehn.
God knows your heart, he knows that you would have loved to help,
but you are broke and couldn't even help yourself .
That is why you shouldn't bother about what they are saying
or
start feeling guilty for not helping them. It is not your faulty anyway.
Do you know why you shouldn't feel guilty ?
It is because, your siblings or relatives are not your responsibilities .
This sound weird abi?
Yes, but it is the bitter truth.
The only people that you should feel guilty of not helping are your wife and children.
They are the only people, who are your responsibilities to help.
Your parents' contributions in your life will determine whether to feel guilty of not helping them or not.
If they have tried their best for you but things are not working as expected,
Then you should feel guilty of being disappointment to them.
But if they didn't do any thing to secure your future which resulted to your present condition,
Then don't feel guilty of not been able to help them when you should
Because you can only reap what you sow.
Giving birth to you is not enough.
If only what your parents contributed in your life was just to give birth to you and allowed you to suffer through,
Don't feel guilty for not helping them .
If they had played their roles as parents, your life would have been better today.
Even fowls make sure to secure the future of their chicks before separating from them.
Every good parents secure the future of their children by playing their roles.
Breeding children is not enough but training them.
If you can't train them,
Don't give birth to them.
And don't expect people to train your children for you,
Everyone has his own problems to face.
Stop blaming your brothers or relatives for not helping you either.
You are not their responsibility and they are not obliged to help you.
If they can't help you, then come out and hustle like a man to help yourself.
If you must blame,
blame your parents for giving birth to you without your consent,
you can even sue them,
for bringing you out to this world to suffer. LOL
Men
Beware of family problems.
Don't be bugged and get overwhelmed.
Do what you can do and leave what you can't do.
Concentrate more on your life and secure your future .
Don't allow family problems to stop you from achieving your set goals.
Be brutally selfish!
Be wise
Don't loose guard
© Efoli kingsley