08/03/2025
Why am I not successful with women?
Men
You can never be successful with women, until you understand women nature.
If you want to get married, have children and have a happy family in future then you should understand women nature.
A man in my inbox cried out to me that all the four women he dated, dumped him and blocked him even though he loved them , it is becoming a pattern and he wants to change the narrative.
If all the women you dated dumped you without remorse then the problem is you not the women and it will affect your marriage..
A man is meant to have full knowledge of women nature and utilize his masculine traits to balance his relationship.
What are the masculine traits?
Let me break it down;
There are four traits, character or properties that masculinity is built on
These are:
LOVER,
MAGICIAN ,
WARRIOR, and
KING's characters.
This means that every man has the ability to act as a lover, a magician, a warrior and a king depending on the occasion.
Knowing when and how to apply any of these masculine characters is what makes you a true masculine and an Alpha
The problem is that, most people who claims to be Alphas only utilize their Warrior and king's characters but neglect their LOVER and MAGICIAN's characters thereby overwhelming the woman and losing their ideal women.
Don't blame Redpillers if you scatter your peaceful relationships, blame yourself for being ignorant of the message.
Let's break it down;
LOVER; no woman will be comfortable with you if you don't show her love and tender care.
Sometimes, shower her with gifts, take her out and spend your money on her no matter how small it is . If you are too broke to buy gifts , take your woman out once in a while, please forget about relationship for now.
Do you think I was joking when I told you that relationship is a distraction? It will drain your pocket, drain your energy and will affect your savings.
Don't enter into a committed relationship until you are ready for it, it requires money to run or get ready to lose more women. Love is an action word not just by sweet mouth.
When you meet the right woman who showers you with love, gifts and care, you are bound to reciprocate or else you lose her.
I once lost a good woman for being too stingy though I never regret my actions but I knew that I was at fault.
She never pressure me me financially, she buys gifts for me in every festive times and on my birthdays but I rarely spend on her with an excuse that I am doing an unfitting jobs and need to save money to start a business.
She later left me when she realized that I was not ready for committed relationship .
I lost her to another man but I got a better woman after I achieved my goal of starting my dream business.
The code is that, you should first pursue your goals before talking about a committed relationship and when you finally get your ideal woman, you should know that you need money to run it but it shouldn't be one sided.
If she can't invest in you, then you are still searching. Any woman who loves you will invest in you and you are bound to reciprocate .
Losing a good woman because you want to achieve your set goals is a part of sacrifices you should embrace as a man. You will definitely get a better woman when you become successful and ready for relationship.
Magician; a man should be unpredictable, show surprises and avoid being seen finish.
Why showing love and care, be unpredictable in doing so, don't be forced or manipulated to do it, and try to be exert in your predictions of her next actions or moves this makes you a mystery man and a challenge to her.
Warrior; put her in her place when she wants to leverage on your love to cross her boundaries. Be brave enough to curb her excesses .
King; be in total control of your relationship, clinch unto your power and be selfish with it.
Be fair and firm in asserting your authority while exuding charisma and kingly aura. Learn packaging and be the man she is proud to flaunt around.
Knowing how, when and where to apply your masculine traits is essential in balancing your relationship and ensures your success with women folk.
Be wise
don't looseguard.
The Logical Men
