09/08/2026
DON’T DESTROY YOUR DESTINY FOR A LIE
I will like to share something very important to my fellow single sisters out their.
Some men will look you in the eyes and say,
Let me get you pregnant first, then I will marry you."
Hmmm...
My sister, hear me.
The devil is not after your body. He is after your destiny.
When God has deposited greatness, purpose, and a future in you, the enemy will fight with everything to cut it short. And one of his favorite traps is " s*x before marriage" disguised as love.
The man that God has ordained for you, the bone of your bone, flesh of your flesh will never demand your body as proof of love.
A true son of God will protect your purity, not pollute it.
He will cover you, not compromise you.
He will build your future, not trade it for pleasure.
Today this has become "normal." But normal is not the same as right.
The Bible still stands: "Marriage is honorable, and the bed undefiled." Hebrews 13:4
We have left the place of holiness. We have traded the Holy Spirit for temporary feelings.
Dear virtuous sister's, if a man tells you "get pregnant for me first," please know this:
He is not seeing a wife. He is seeing a test case.
He is not planning a home. He is planning an exit.
Your womb is not a proposal. Your body is not a contract.
Wait. Guard your heart. Guard your destiny.
The right one will wait with you, pray with you, and honor you before God and man.
Don’t let the devil use "love" to destroy what God wants to build.
Your tomorrow is watching you today. Choose wisely.
Know what the Bible says concerning s*xual purity.
Some men already know the kind of woman they want.
But instead, they chase after the ones who are easy, the ones with no boundaries, the ones they can use and walk away from.
Sister, this is why prayer is not optional before relationship. It’s survival.
Because some relationships don’t just break your heart.
They drain your joy.
They dry up your prayer life.
They mess with your peace, your focus, your destiny.
They leave you empty in your spirit, your mind, and your body.
And the painful part?
We see the red flags waving.
We see the disrespect. The lies. The pressure.
Yet we still say "I can change him" or "love will fix it."
But love without God and without wisdom is a trap.
Then there’s culture...
Some people now think it’s normal to say "let her get pregnant first before we allow marriage."
As if your womb is proof. As if your dignity is currency.
But God is calling us back.
The Bible says our bodies are temples. The bed is to be kept pure. Honor is not old-fashione, it’s protection.
Dear virtuous sister's, don’t sign up for a relationship that costs you your life.
Don’t trade your destiny for company.
Pray first. Wait on God.
The right person will not drain you. They will build you, cover you, and grow with you.
Your peace is worth more than any relationship.
Your purity is worth more than any "proposal."
Guard it. ❤️
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