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PERKAHWINAN BUKAN SEKADAR AKADHai future couples! Riasan.my nak share something deep hari ni. We often focus sangat pada...
21/08/2025

PERKAHWINAN BUKAN SEKADAR AKAD

Hai future couples! Riasan.my nak share something deep hari ni. We often focus sangat pada wedding day sampai lupa yang sebenarnya... ''AKAD tu just the beginning!''

AKAD = STARTING POINT, BUKAN END POINT

"You don't marry someone to be happy. You marry someone to give happiness to."

MANY PEOPLE THINK:
❌ "Lepas akad, semua akan perfect"
❌ "Marriage will solve all my problems"
❌ "Now I can relax and be comfortable"
❌ "The hard work is over"

✅ REALITY IS:
✨ Akad is your **COMMITMENT** to start working together
✨ Marriage is a **DAILY CHOICE** to love & support
✨ Real journey starts **AFTER** you say "Qabul"
✨ It's about **BUILDING** something beautiful together

SELEPAS AKAD, INI YANG BERMULA:

1️⃣ BUILDING TRUST EVERY DAY
• Keep your promises, big & small
• Be reliable dalam good times & hard times
• Show up for each other consistently
• Prove your words dengan actions

2️⃣ LEARNING TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY
• Accept flaws & embrace imperfections
• Love during mood swings & stress
• Support dreams even when they seem impossible
• Choose patience over frustration

3️⃣ CREATING YOUR OWN FAMILY CULTURE
• Establish traditions yang meaningful
• Build habits yang strengthen bond
• Create safe space untuk both to grow
• Develop your unique way of handling life

4️⃣GROWING SPIRITUALLY TOGETHER
• Help each other become better Muslims
• Pray together, seek Allah's guidance together
• Remind each other about akhirat
• Be each other's companion to Jannah

RIASAN.MY DEEP REFLECTION:

"Akad nikah adalah janji di hadapan Allah dan saksi. Tapi setiap hari selepas tu, kita kena prove that promise dengan action, patience, love, and commitment."

PERKAHWINAN ITU:

✨ Journey of growth - you'll discover new sides of yourself
✨ School of patience - you'll learn sabr dalam new ways
✨ Test of character - your true self will show
✨ Investment in akhirat - it's ibadah bila done right
✨ Partnership in everything - dreams, struggles, joys, sorrows

BEAUTIFUL REMINDER:

"Don't just marry someone you can live with. Marry someone you cannot imagine living without, and then work every day to deserve that kind of love."

DOA FOR COUPLES:
"Ya Allah, berikanlah kekuatan kepada kami untuk menjadi pasangan yang saling melengkapi, saling menyayangi, dan saling membawa kepada kebaikan dunia akhirat. Amin."

TO ALL FUTURE COUPLES:

Prepare your heart, bukan just your wedding dress.
Build your character, bukan just your guest list.
Strengthen your deen, bukan just your theme color.

*Because the most beautiful weddings lead to the most meaningful marriages.*

*What does marriage mean to you beyond the wedding day? Share your thoughts! Let's have a meaningful discussion!*

📞 Ready untuk plan a wedding yang reflects your true understanding of marriage?
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20/08/2025

POV: The excitement of seeing your pelamin for the first time — all the planning, all the dreams, finally come to life

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5 BENDA PENTING PENGANTIN PERLU INGAT SAMPAI BILA-BILA! Hai beautiful couples! Wedding day tu magical, tapi riasan.my na...
19/08/2025

5 BENDA PENTING PENGANTIN PERLU INGAT SAMPAI BILA-BILA!

Hai beautiful couples! Wedding day tu magical, tapi riasan.my nak share 5 perkara penting yang kena ingat FOREVER dalam marriage journey korang!

"These reminders will keep your marriage strong through every season of life!"

1️⃣ INGAT KENAPA KORANG JATUH CINTA

✅ SELALU REMIND YOURSELF:
• What made you choose each other dulu?
• Qualities yang you fell in love with
• Sweet memories yang buat you smile
• Dreams yang you shared together
• How happy you felt masa first time realize "this is the one"

PRACTICE:
Bila tengah stress atau gaduh, flashback to those beautiful moments. It will soften your heart instantly.

2️⃣ JANGAN AMBIL PARTNER FOR GRANTED

✅ APPRECIATE DAILY:
• Say "thank you" for small things dia buat
• Notice efforts dia, even yang simple
• Compliment dia regularly
• Show gratitude for their presence in your life
• Celebrate small wins together

REMINDER:
"The person who loves you most deserves your best manners, bukan your worst moods."

3️⃣ COMMUNICATION IS EVERYTHING

✅ NEVER STOP TALKING:
• Share your feelings openly & honestly
• Listen dengan hati, bukan just telinga
• Ask "How was your day?" dengan genuine interest
• Discuss dreams, fears, hopes together
• Don't assume - ASK bila tak faham

GOLDEN RULE:
"Speak to your spouse the way you want Allah to speak to you - dengan love, patience & mercy."

4️⃣ KEEP THE ROMANCE ALIVE

✅ NEVER STOP DATING:
• Surprise each other occasionally
• Dress up nice untuk your spouse
• Plan special moments together
• Say "I love you" like you mean it
• Physical affection & emotional intimacy matter
• Create new memories regularly

SWEET REMINDER:
"After 10, 20, 50 years - still look at each other like you're newly in love!"

5️⃣ DUA & PRAYER TOGETHER

✅ SPIRITUAL BOND:
• Pray together as a couple
• Ask Allah to strengthen your marriage
• Seek guidance dalam challenges
• Be grateful for the blessing of each other
• Make marriage part of your ibadah

POWERFUL DUA:
"Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a'yun - Ya Allah, jadikanlah pasangan kami penyejuk mata hati."

RIASAN.MY ETERNAL REMINDER:

"Marriage is not a destination - it's a beautiful journey. These 5 things are your compass to navigate through every joy and challenge together."

Promise each other:
• To choose love every single day
• To grow together, not apart
• To be each other's safe space
• To never give up on your love story

BONUS TIP:
*"Write these 5 reminders somewhere visible in your home. Read them during tough times. They will bring you back to what matters most."*

Which reminder hits closest to your heart? Tag your spouse and tell them which one you want to work on together!

📞 Ready untuk build a marriage that lasts forever?
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Weaving Wedding Dreams Into RealityFor rates & packages kindly click the link on our bio.  📲https://linktr.ee/riasan.my ...
19/08/2025

Weaving Wedding Dreams Into Reality

For rates & packages kindly click the link on our bio.

📲https://linktr.ee/riasan.my



Weaving Wedding Dreams Into RealityFor rates & packages kindly click the link on our bio.  📲https://linktr.ee/riasan.my ...
19/08/2025

Weaving Wedding Dreams Into Reality

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From Drawing to Reality Ulil x Zubaidah indoor wedding dais was crafted from a soft pastel drawing into a dreamy reality...
18/08/2025

From Drawing to Reality
Ulil x Zubaidah indoor wedding dais was crafted from a soft pastel drawing into a dreamy reality . With cascading florals, blush tones, and a romantic arch, every detail was designed to reflect their vision.

At Riasan.my, every dais is more than décor — it’s a crafted story, made just for you.

Swipe left to see how the drawing came alive on their big day.

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5 CARA BERTOLAK ANSUR DALAM PERKAHWINAN Hai married couples & future newlyweds! Riasan.my nak share kunci penting untuk ...
18/08/2025

5 CARA BERTOLAK ANSUR DALAM PERKAHWINAN

Hai married couples & future newlyweds! Riasan.my nak share kunci penting untuk happy marriage - BERTOLAK ANSUR!

"Marriage is not 50-50. Sometimes it's 80-20, sometimes 60-40. The key is both partners giving 100% when needed."

1️⃣ COMPROMISE DALAM KEPUTUSAN

✅ CARA YANG BETUL:
• Discuss together before decide anything big
• Listen to partner's opinion dengan respect
• Find middle ground yang both boleh accept
• Take turns untuk make final decision
• Consider impact pada both partners

CONTOH:
"Nak beli rumah area mana? Husband s**a area A, wife s**a area B. Find area C yang ada qualities both areas yang korang s**a!"

2️⃣ GIVE & TAKE DALAM DAILY ROUTINE

✅ BAGAIMANA:
• Share household chores fairly
• Flexible dengan each other's schedule
• Support partner's hobbies/interests
• Ambil giliran untuk sacrifice small things
• Understand each other's priorities

💡 CONTOH:
"Today I masak, tomorrow you masak. This weekend kita ikut plan dia, next weekend ikut plan kita."

3️⃣ PATIENCE DALAM PERBEZAAN

✅ PRACTICE:
• Accept that you're different people
• Don't try to change everything about partner
• Be patient dengan their learning process
• Appreciate differences as strengths
• Work together untuk overcome challenges

💡 REMINDER:
"Dia s**a organize everything, kita s**a spontaneous. Instead of fight, use both approaches untuk balance!"

4️⃣ FORGIVE & FORGET

✅ IMPORTANT:
• Don't keep score of past mistakes
• Apologize sincerely when wrong
• Learn to let go of small issues
• Focus on solution, not blame
• Choose love over being right

💡 ISLAMIC REMINDER:
"Allah s**a orang yang s**a memaafkan. Be the first to say sorry!"

5️⃣ COMMUNICATE WITH LOVE

✅ HOW TO:
• Use gentle words even when upset
• Express needs without attacking character
• Listen untuk understand, bukan untuk reply
• Say "WE have a problem" instead of "YOU are the problem"
• Always end arguments with love

💡 MAGIC WORDS:
*"Maybe we can try...", "What if we...", "I understand your point, and..."*

❤️ RIASAN.MY MARRIAGE WISDOM:

"Bertolak ansur bukan bermaksud you lose yourself dalam marriage. It means you choose to build something beautiful TOGETHER, even when it's hard."

**Remember: The strongest marriages are between two people who:**
• Choose each other every day ✅
• Willing to bend but not break ✅
• See challenges as opportunities to grow closer ✅

DOA UNTUK MARRIED COUPLES:

*"Ya Allah, kurniakanlah kesabaran, pengertian dan kasih sayang dalam rumah tangga kami. Jadikanlah perkahwinan kami sebagai ibadah kepada-Mu. Amin."*

Which tip resonates most dengan you? Share your own tolak ansur stories dalam comment! Let's inspire each other!

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CARI PASANGAN YANG SEKUFU - MAKSUDNYA APA SEBENARNYA?Hai future brides & grooms! Riasan.my nak share something important...
17/08/2025

CARI PASANGAN YANG SEKUFU - MAKSUDNYA APA SEBENARNYA?

Hai future brides & grooms! Riasan.my nak share something important pasal concept "sekufu" dalam Islam. Let's understand it properly

APA ITU SEKUFU?

"Sekufu" bukan bermaksud kena sama level wang atau darjat dunia je. It's much deeper than that!

SEKUFU DALAM ISLAM MELIPUTI:

1️⃣ AKIDAH & AGAMA
• Same faith & religious understanding
• Sama-sama committed dalam ibadah
• Support each other's spiritual growth
• Shared Islamic values dalam daily life

2️⃣ AKHLAK & BUDI PEKERTI
• Good character & moral values
• Respect untuk family & others
• Honest, amanah, dan bertanggungjawab
• Kind heart & gentle soul

3️⃣ MATURITY & MINDSET
• Emotional & mental maturity
• Similar life goals & vision
• Ready untuk commitment & sacrifice
• Can handle challenges together

4️⃣ COMPATIBILITY
• Understand each other's personality
• Complement each other's strengths & weaknesses
• Good communication & respect
• Bring out the best in each other

❌ SEKUFU BUKAN BERMAKSUD:

• Kena sama kaya 💰
• Same education level 🎓
• Same family background 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦
• Physical appearance standards 🚫

RIASAN.MY ISLAMIC REMINDER:

"Rasulullah SAW bersabda: 'Wanita dikahwini kerana 4 perkara: hartanya, keturunannya, kecantikannya, dan agamanya. Pilihlah yang beragama, nescaya engkau beruntung.'"

Translation: Choose someone for their DEEN (faith), and you'll be blessed

TIPS MENCARI PASANGAN SEKUFU:

✅ Prioritize character over material things
✅ Look for shared values dalam kehidupan
✅ Observe their relationship dengan family & friends
✅ See how they handle challenges & stress
✅ Check their commitment towards Allah & Islam
✅ Ensure mutual respect & understanding
BEAUTIFUL REMINDER:

"When you find someone who makes you a better Muslim, who supports your journey to Jannah, and whose character reflects Islamic teachings - that's your SEKUFU."

Doa untuk kita semua: *"Ya Allah, kurniakanlah jodoh yang soleh/solehah, yang dapat membawa kami lebih dekat kepada-Mu. Amin."* 🤲💕

What does SEKUFU mean to you? Share dalam comment! Tag someone yang perlu reminded about true compatibility

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PESANAN UNTUK YANG SEDANG DILAMUN CINTA Hai lovebirds yang tengah planning nak step up relationship! Riasan.my ada pesan...
15/08/2025

PESANAN UNTUK YANG SEDANG DILAMUN CINTA

Hai lovebirds yang tengah planning nak step up relationship! Riasan.my ada pesanan penting ni...

"PASTIKAN KITA DAPAT PANDANGAN DARI KEDUA IBU BAPA KITA"

Because love is beautiful, but BLESSED love is even more beautiful

KENAPA PANDANGAN IBU BAPA PENTING?

1️⃣ MEREKA NAK YANG TERBAIK UNTUK KITA
• Experience hidup mereka lebih banyak
• Boleh nampak red flags yang kita miss
• Perspective yang objective, bukan emotional
• They know us better than anyone else

2️⃣ FAMILY HARMONY = MARRIAGE HARMONY
• Kahwin tu bukan just dua orang, tapi dua keluarga
• Support system yang kuat untuk future challenges
• Avoid family drama that can affect relationship
• Create foundation yang solid untuk rumah tangga

3️ BLESSING & BARAKAH
• Restu ibu bapa bawa keberkatan
• Peace of mind untuk both families
• Start marriage dengan positive energy
• No hidden resentment or family conflicts

RIASAN.MY GENTLE ADVICE:

"Bukan bermaksud parents kena approve everything, tapi at least dengar pendapat mereka. Sometimes love makes us blind, but parents' wisdom can guide us to see clearly."

HOW TO APPROACH YOUR PARENTS:

✅ Be open & honest - Share your feelings
✅ Listen actively - Understand their concerns
✅ Give them time - Don't rush their decision
✅ Show maturity - Handle disagreements wisely
✅ Introduce properly - Let them get to know your partner
✅ Address concerns - Work together untuk solve issues

REMEMBER DEAR ONES:

"The best relationships are built on love, respect, and family blessings. When everyone is happy and supportive, your marriage journey will be smoother and more beautiful."

DOA FOR YOU:

"Semoga Allah permudahkan jodoh yang terbaik untuk kita, yang diberkati oleh keluarga dan diredhai Allah SWT."

**Tag someone yang perlu baca ni! Share your thoughts dalam comment - how important are parents' blessings to you?** 👇

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"KALAU KITA KAHWIN CARI SEMPURNA, TAKKAN JUMPA"Hai future brides & grooms! Riasan.my nak share something real dengan kor...
14/08/2025

"KALAU KITA KAHWIN CARI SEMPURNA, TAKKAN JUMPA"

Hai future brides & grooms! Riasan.my nak share something real dengan korang hari ni. This hits deep! 💖

REALITY CHECK: NOBODY IS PERFECT!

"Perfect partner tu myth je. Yang ada adalah RIGHT PERSON for YOU."

Selama ni kita tengok:
- Instagram couple goals
- Fairytale movies
- Perfect wedding photos

BUT REALITY IS...

CINTA TU BUKAN TENTANG PERFECT, TAPI TENTANG:

1️⃣ ACCEPTANCE
• Accept flaws dia, dia accept flaws kita
• Love the person, bukan expectation kita
• Grow together, bukan change each other

2️⃣ COMPATIBILITY
• Similar values & life goals
• Boleh communicate dengan baik
• Support each other's dreams
• Handle conflict dengan matang

3️⃣ EFFORT DARI BOTH SIDES
• Work on relationship every day
• Choose love even on hard days
• Appreciate small gestures
• Keep trying untuk understand each other

RIASAN.MY GENTLE REMINDER:

"Jangan tunggu perfect person. BE the right person untuk someone yang betul-betul sayang kita. Marriage is about two IMPERFECT people refusing to give up on each other."

INSTEAD OF ASKING:
❌ "Is he/she perfect for me?"

✅ ASK YOURSELF:
• Do we bring out the best in each other?
• Can we handle challenges together?
• Do we have similar vision untuk future?
• Are we willing to put in the work?

Remember lovebirds: The best marriages aren't between perfect people, but between people who perfect their love for each other every single day.

Share if you agree! Tag your imperfect but PERFECT-FOR-YOU person! 👇

📞 Ready to plan your real, beautiful, imperfect love story?
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5 TIPS PENTING SELEPAS KAWIN UNTUK BAKAL PENGANTIN! Hai lovebirds! Planning nak kahwin je ke? Jom riasan.my share apa ya...
13/08/2025

5 TIPS PENTING SELEPAS KAWIN UNTUK BAKAL PENGANTIN!

Hai lovebirds! Planning nak kahwin je ke? Jom riasan.my share apa yang perlu prepare SELEPAS majlis kahwin tu! Because the real journey starts after "I DO"

FINANCIAL PLANNING TOGETHER
• Set up joint account untuk household expenses
• Discuss spending habits & financial goals
• Plan for emergency fund as a couple
• Talk about big purchases - transparency is key!

SETUP YOUR NEW HOME
• Decide whose place OR cari rumah baru together
• Combine belongings dengan bijak (bye bye duplicate items!)
• Create space yang both of you comfortable
• Don't rush - decorate gradually, enjoy the process!

ESTABLISH COUPLE ROUTINES
• Morning & bedtime routines together
• Weekly date nights - jangan lupa romance!
• Household chores distribution yang fair
• Quality time tanpa phone/social media

COMMUNICATE EXPECTATIONS
• Discuss in-laws relationship & boundaries
• Talk about career priorities & support system
• Future planning - kids, travel, dreams
• How to handle conflicts dengan mature

MAINTAIN INDIVIDUAL IDENTITY
• Keep your hobbies & friendships
• Support each other's personal growth
• Don't lose yourself dalam relationship
• Celebrate each other's achievements!

"Marriage is not just about the perfect wedding day - it's about building a beautiful life together. Start strong, communicate always, and remember why you chose each other!"

Dah ready untuk journey ni? Share tips korang dalam comment! 👇

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Boho Dreams Beside the RiverSoft drapes, woven rattan, and a cascade of blooms — this outdoor dais transforms nature’s b...
12/08/2025

Boho Dreams Beside the River
Soft drapes, woven rattan, and a cascade of blooms — this outdoor dais transforms nature’s beauty into a wedding-day masterpiece.

From the wedding of Shahirah & Amirul

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